Bucklin Family Circa 1975
This is not the best quality photo by any means. I worked on it for a while to get rid of spots and scratches, but some of them were just too big to get rid of. But the story behind the photo is what I wanted to talk about. The picture includes my mom and her family. My mom’s name was Betty Lou Bucklin Landry. She was born and grew up in Hathaway, Louisiana. Her parents were Fred D. Bucklin and Myrtle Sylvia Phenice Bucklin. We were their grandkids, and we called them Grandma and Grandpa.
Mama wasn’t the only child of Grandma and Grandpa. There were five children in total – four girls and their younger brother. All of them show up in this photo, in addition to some spouses and children. These are a lot of the Bucklin cousins that I grew up with. Our family would go there once a month or so because we lived about 12 miles away. They were in Hathaway, while we were in Jennings. Jennings is much bigger, of course, and it is the parish seat of Jefferson Davis Parish.
Sometimes when we’d go, some of the other cousins would be there as well. But for the big holidays of the year – Easter, Thanksgiving, and Christmas – all of the cousins would be there. It was always a fun time going out to the country. They lived on a large property that was actually within other family land that was used for farming. When it was blackberry season, we’d walk down the side road (Bucklin Rd.) and pick fruit along the dirt road. We’d usually make it down to the Myrie. At least that’s what we’d call it. It’s actually called the Grand Marais and it provides drainage for that area when it rains. It’s really just a big ditch. We never knew there was an official name for it but called it Myrie. It would rhyme with fiery.
Once we got to the small wooden bridge over the Myrie, we’d stop and throw rocks in the water. It was a great place to pop fireworks, too. We wouldn’t usually go much further than that. Why would we? There wasn’t much of anything past that exciting little drainage ditch. Ha! So we’d head back to Grandma and Grandpa’s to play in the bamboo stand or eat some of the satsumas or kumquats. We’d finally make it back to the house, but I don’t know if we ever had many blackberries to give them.
In the evenings after dinner we’d find other things to do. I forgot to say that when I was really young, the first thing that I’d do was go look for the sock monkey in the big toy chest in their house. I’ve always been a big fan of sock monkeys, in case you don’t know that already. You know, they really are quite charming. Sometimes the grandkids would sneak outside and go out on the property and play with fire. I always enjoyed playing with fire, but for some reason I always missed out on those excursions! Maybe I was distracted by the charms of the sock monkey! Not once did I join in the cousin fire fun.
But this picture is one of the last times that the cousins got together at Grandma and Grandpa’s out at Hathaway. We were getting older and starting to venture off to do our own things. But Grandma and Grandpa were even older. They were moving into their 70s and were starting to have health issues. They couldn’t take care of the big property, and they needed to be closer to medical help. So they were moving into the city of Jennings. I know that some of the family went to Hathaway to help them get things packed and moved. I remember doing that, but I don’t know if that’s what this photo is from.
Let me identify everyone. Grandpa is the older man in the overalls in the middle of the photo. To the right of him is Grandma. Their oldest daughter Sylvia is the right of her. The only other member of her family groups is Kevin Pilcher. He is the second one from the left in the middle row in a blue shirt. My mom is the next oldest daughter, and she is in the pink outfit to the right. Five of her six Landry children are present. To the right of her is Al, and to the right of him is me. In front of us is my sister Karen. Rob is the second from the left on the back row in the diamond print shirt. Jamie is sitting in the front row, and it looks like the sunlight is hitting her white shirt. Alma is the next oldest daughter, and she is the one in the blue jumpsuit in the middle row. Her daughters are sitting on either side of Jamie. Charla Seal is the left with short hair and Rhonda Seal is to the right with longer hair. Alma’s second husband Ernie (or Hoss) Waldorf is the first one on the left in the back row. Aunt Loris is in the back row in the horizontal multi-colored striped top. Her son Keith is in front to the right of her in the Budweiser hat and yellow shirt. Glen is directly behind Rhonda. Directly behind Glen is Uncle Ernest Woolley, Aunt Loris’s husband. And that leaves us with the Austin Bucklin family. Uncle Austin is on the left in the middle row in a red shirt. His three children (at the time. Mary would be born later.) are in front of him. From left to right is John, Dale, and Anita.
So the picture shows the end of an era. No more visits to the country to Grandma and Grandpa’s. We had some of the Christmas get togethers at our house in Jennings at 758 Lucy Street. Grandma and Grandpa had their 50th wedding celebration at our house, also. Those were some great times, but they were not the same as the visits to the country. I guess I’m a bit nostalgic about those visits to the country when I was young.
But if you had visits like that when you were young, you’d be nostalgic too!