
Watercolor painting by Arlene Keys Ware
Interesting title, right? I would have had the perfect photo for it if I hadn’t made a bad choice a few years ago. How could I have been so shortsighted?
The topic came about as a result of the family reunion I went to last weekend. It was for the Keys family in southern Louisiana. My great grandmother was Daisy Keys, and she came to the United States from England in 1887 when she was just eleven years old. The reunion was for the descendants of her and her four siblings. It was a nice event. I was able to see some family members that I was hoping to see. I received some positive (and negative) feedback from the writing and photo editing that I do for these blog posts. But I also heard some sad news. Two of my mom’s first cousins had passed away earlier this year.
I try to keep up with the goings on of my closest relatives, but I do not always succeed. I’m kind of surprised that I hadn’t heard about not just one, but two of her cousins. Especially since they lived in Lake Charles and I have lots of family in Lake Charles. But then again, most of those relatives are on my dad’s side of the family. The two family members who passed away were Arlene Keys Ware and her brother Melvin Keys.
Some of you might be wondering how my mom could have a first cousin with the last name of Keys, when her grandmother was a Keys. Wouldn’t her first cousins more likely have the Bucklin or Phenice last name like her parents? That would usually be correct. But Arlene and Mel were not first cousins to my mom through the Keys side of the family. Their mother was Edna Bucklin, who was the sister of her father Fred. We saw a picture of them just last week on my blog post! I didn’t realize the connection until just now. So Fred married Myrtle Phenice and Edna married Myrtle’s first cousin Frank Keys. Arlene and Mel were not just first cousins, they were second cousins as well.
Arlene was the younger of the two. She’s one of the few of my mom’s first cousins that I remember from far back. That’s probably because when she was in high school, she went to LaGrange High School when my dad was the band director. She was in band, so she knew him pretty well. Plus, she was the drum major for the band. I have some old photos from back then that I had intended on going through to see if she might want any. I never got around to doing it.
I always enjoyed talking with Arlene at family get togethers and such. I was also a fan of her artwork over the past few years. She was a wonderful water colorist. I wish I had some of her work. I have some digital copies of several of them, so that’s sufficient. I had been hoping to see her at the reunion. I didn’t realize she had passed away.
I was also hoping to see her brother Mel there. I was wanting to possibly remedy the mistake I had made a few years ago. It was at the 2017 Keys Family Reunion. That was the first time that I was aware of Mel Keys being at a family reunion. He probably had been to some in the past and I didn’t really pay attention to him. I didn’t know anything about him. But a short while before this reunion I had been given some interesting information about him. Let me give you the back story first.
I am a huge Star Trek fan. I’ve been a fan since that first Starship Enterprise was flying across our tiny black and white screen in Jennings, Louisiana. I don’t remember watching entire episodes of the show when it first aired. I seem to remember catching glimpses of it when I was acting as the channel changer. My dad would tell me to change the channel, and I would follow through. But when I saw that spaceship or Mr. Spock on the screen, I would linger as long as I could. The first episode I remember watching was the one with the Gorn in it. Remember, the big alligator guy that was fighting with Captain Kirk on a deserted planet?! It is epic. Like I said, I’m a Trekkie.
I really started watching the show when it went into syndication shortly after it was cancelled in the early 1970s. I would look forward to watching it after I got home from school. When I got a paper route around 1972, it messed up my Trek viewing. I remember seeing the opening credits about “to boldly go where no man has gone before” and I had to boldly jump on my bicycle and bring the news to my neighbors. No matter how quickly I delivered those papers, I at most caught a few minutes of the ending of the show.
That didn’t stop me from being a fan. I seem to remember dressing up as Mr. Spock for Halloween or something. I carefully wrapped tape around my ears to make them look pointed. I seem to recall my mom saying that I even shaved the ends of my eyebrows to make me look like I had pointed eyebrows. Again, I have no photo to document that as well. Just vague memories here and there. I also remember when we got our first color TV. The first show we saw on it? You got it, it was Star Trek. It was the episode where the space hippies were looking for love and paradise. It was so groovy and colorful.
One of the things that people made fun of was the way that when an unknown crewmember (usually wearing a red shirt) beamed down to the planet with someone like Captain Kirk or Mr. Spock, you always knew that that person was going to die! It seemed to happen frequently. I remember thinking that they should let one of the main characters die. They could bring them back the following week! It’s fiction! That way we wouldn’t know who was going to die when that red-shirted guy beamed down to the planet. So you can’t imagine how happy I was *** SPOILER ALERT*** when they killed off Spock in the second Star Trek movie. Then they brought him back in the third movie. It was just what I always wanted. Those were the best movies ever!!!

July 1965- the day of completion of the Star Trek model in Burbank, California. From the left Vern Sion, Mel Keys, and Volmer Jensen.
Now I’m telling you all of this because of what I found out years later. You have to see it in relation to my history with Star Trek and how that had started when I was a small child. When I was watching the show all through the years, I wasn’t aware of the family connection I had with the show. It wasn’t until around 2015 or so that I found out the amazing information. Cousin Joseph was sharing old family photos with me, and he sent me a photo of some people on the street standing next to what looked like the Starship Enterprise. I asked him what it was. He told me that our moms’ first cousin Mel Keys had built the model of the Starship Enterprise. The Starship Enterprise that had zoomed across my old black and white TV all those years ago had been built by my mom’s first cousin!!!
My mind was blown. I don’t say that very often. Actually, I don’t recall saying that about anything else in my life. My mom must not have known this fact. I would have remembered if she had said something like, “Oh, yeah, my cousin built that cool spaceship.” Definitely I would have remembered that little juicy morsel of information. But now that I know this information, I tell it to people all the time. Especially if they are somewhat interested in science fiction. Sometimes even if they’re not! It’s just too amazing.
So when I went to that 2017 Keys Reunion, I saw Mel Keys. I talked to him and let him know I was a fan of the show. It was a pleasant little chat. Later, though, people were taking photos of groups for the reunion. My sister Karen and some cousins decided to get a picture taken with Mel Keys. Not a group photo, they were each taking a photo with him. I declined. Can you believe it? What was I thinking? I didn’t want to bother him by getting a picture with him because of a model he made fifty years earlier. What was I thinking? Of course I did! It was the Starship Enterprise that was used in the filming of that show! I didn’t take the chance.
But I was hoping to remedy that this year and go where I had not gone before. Alas, it was not to be. I was sorry that my mom’s first cousin had died. I would have liked to have (boldly) gone to the funeral to be with the family. In good Star Trek fashion, he lived long and prospered.
Peace and long life.