Go Go Patureau – To Mexico!

Last week I posted a photo of Phenice Family relatives in Nebraska.  In the course of the post that I wrote, I mentioned that I had wondered if my Phenice grandmother (Myrtle Phenice Bucklin, mother of my mom Betty Lou Bucklin Landry) had ever been there.  It seems not.

According to my aunt, Grandma never went to Kansas nor Nebraska.  And she never really traveled much at all.  I had discovered from a previous post that Grandpa (her husband Fred Bucklin) had done more traveling than I had realized.  While Grandma and the family (including my mom, little Betty Lou who was too poor to have a “real” store-bought doll) stayed at home in Hathaway, Grandpa went to a spa vacation in Hot Springs, Arkansas, every summer.  While that is not terribly far to go on a vacation, he was still traveling more than Grandma.

Germaine Erie Patureau Landry on her way to Mexico.

But it was not nearly as much as my other grandmother liked to travel.  She was known for enjoying being on the move.  (Kinda like Jacko.)  So this week I’m posting this photo of Mee Maw (Germaine Erie Patureau Landry, the mother of my dad Robert Joseph “Bob” Landry, Jr.) when she was getting ready to go to Mexico.

To me, she seems very excited to be on the way to the land of her father’s birth.  (Though he was born in Mexico, he was of French and Acadian heritage.)  She loved to travel and would go with family most of the time.  My mom always referred to her as a “Go, go, Patureau.”  I’m not sure if my mom made up that moniker, but I always liked it.

Sisters Erie, Sylvia, and Lorena traveled with Sylvia’s son Rhett.

From the look of the second photo, this was a trip with family members.  That’s my Mee Maw on the far left checking to make sure that she wasn’t shortchanged by the money transfer.  Next to her is her younger sister Sylvia Patureau Marionneaux with her son Rhett.  On the right is Lorena Patureau Cary.  They all look excited about all the money that they received in the exchange.  I wonder who took the photo?  Was there another family member on the trip?

I got this photo from Rhett’s son Wade over a year ago and appreciated seeing this old photo of my grandmother enjoying herself.  She loved traveling and being with family, so this was the best of both worlds for her.  That makes me smile.

The Phenice Family in Nebraska Circa 1935

Phenice family circa 1935

Here is a really nice old photo of the Phenice family from around 1935.  I got this from my cousin Diane Phenice Prejean who shared it with me at the Keys Family Reunion last year.  I had never seen the photo before, so was excited to be able to get a digital copy.  I recognized most of the people in the photo since I have been collecting old photos of the Phenice family for a few years now.

The oldest person in the group is in the center of this photo.  That would be my great great grandfather Samuel Charles Phenice.  As you can see, he was a quite elderly man at the time.  He was born in 1844 and died in 1939.  I estimated that this photo was taken a few years before his death.  His wife Cathrine Jane Foster Phenice had died in 1921, leaving Samuel a widower for almost 20 years.  Besides having been married for 54 years, Charles and Kate (as they were known back then) had eight children together between 1868 and 1889.  Their 6th child named Mollie was born in 1881 and lived less than a year.  The others lived to adulthood.

The oldest child was a boy named Chauncey Austin who was born in 1868.  I have never seen a photo of him. (I have since found one!  Check it out here.) He moved to Colorado and must not have coordinated his visits home with his siblings.  If he did visit home.   He and his wife Anna Stockton had four children together.   Anna May was the oldest girl and she was born in 1869.  You can see her in this photo 2nd from the left.  May, as she was called, married a man named William Taylor and they had a family that lived in Trenton, Nebraska.  That is in the same area that Samuel Phenice homesteaded in the late 1890s.  Samuel was close to his daughter’s Taylor family.  He was living with a Taylor grandson at the time of the 1930 Census.

The third child was another son named William Emory born in 1871.  I’ve never seen a photo of this son either!  He lived in Colorado and California.  His four children he had with his wife Ethel Hohn were all born in Colorado.  The next older son was James Edmund “Edd” who was born in 1872.  I think he had an accident when he was young that resulted in him being deaf.  He was never married and lived with the family in Beaver City until his death in 1944.  He was a handsome young man and I can still recognize him as the man on the far left in this photo.

The fifth child was my great grandfather Harry Clifton, born in 1874.  It’s interesting that Charles and Kate had their first five children in just over six years, and then the last three were born over the next fifteen years.  The earlier children were born in Pennsylvania mostly, while the latter were born in Nebraska when they were homesteading.

We all know that H. C. left Nebraska in 1898 and came to Louisiana, where he married English immigrant Daisy Keys.  He also was known to ride his bicycle across the country to Colorado three times.  He rode from Trenton, Nebraska, to Denver.  I’m not sure about the details.  Surely it happened before he had moved to Louisiana, so it most likely was when he was in his early twenties.  He was about sixty years old in this photo and I doubt that he rode his bike from southern Louisiana to get there.  He is seen third from the left between his sister May and his father Samuel.

The sixth child was Mollie, who I mentioned earlier.  She was born June 12, 1881, in Seward, Nebraska.  She died as an infant and was probably buried in that area.  Samuel’s father Daniel probably died in the same area.  He was alive and living with Samuel and family in Seward during the 1880 Census on June 23, 1880.  I assume he died in the Seward area.  He wasn’t alive in 1885 when Samuel began homesteading in the Trenton area.  So it is likely Daniel and Mollie were buried near each other in Seward.

The seventh child was Lola Myrtle born in 1886 in Seward.  I saw her marriage certificate this summer when I went to Beaver City.  She was married in 1906 to Frank Cozad and they had six children together.  They lived in Alamena, Kansas, which is very close to Beaver City.  This photo was most likely taken in Alamena.  Samuel lived with his youngest daughters the last few years of his life.

His youngest daughter was Emma Orra born in 1889 in Trenton area.  She was married to Charlie Quillen in 1909 in Beaver City, and they had five children together.  She lived in Beaver City most of her life, so this photo could be from that area as well.  Myrtle is the one standing to the right of her father Samuel.  On the other side of her is her younger sister Emma, and I think the man on the far right is Emma’s husband Charlie.  At least he looks like other photos of Charlie that I have seen.

I’ve wondered if H. C.’s daughter Myrtle (my maternal grandmother AKA Grandma) knew her aunts and uncles on this side of the family.  I know that her younger sister Marguerite only visited the family up in Kansas/Nebraska once.  I haven’t seen Grandma in any of the photos from there.  I know that she knew her Keys aunts and uncles because they all lived nearby.  So the family lost touch because of distance.

But now we are making new connections with our cousins through modern connectivity.  DNA testing helps us to identify some of these relations.  Social media allows us to keep in touch with them and see some of what they are doing.  I’ve always wondered what my family in other parts of the country had for dinner.

And now I know.

Surplus Sunday – Patureau Reunion Video 1993: Tez Speaks

I got another treat this morning when I looked at my phone. It’s a link to the 1993 Patureau Reunion that I attended. I don’t see myself in the video, but I do see Tez and Syl Daigre, two of my dad’s first cousins.

At 3:06 I’m pretty sure that is Syl on the left and she is talking with Linda Cansler on the right. They were going through some old Patureau information. I think I have that collection of Patureau information from my dad.

Then at 6:05 Tez gets up and speaks about Grampa Max and the store and veterinary business he had in Plaquemine. It’s interesting to hear her voice again after all these years. Look at her Paula Raley, she really doesn’t seem that scary! And the bumps are hardly noticeable!

But the thing I do notice about her is that she does not offer to help her elderly cousin in any way. Tez has a microphone (probably a child’s Rock Star toy one) for when she was addressing everyone. Then when her cousin (I haven’t determine who she is yet. Any help would be appreciated. Don’t be a Tez!) starts to talk, she just looks her way and holds onto the mic the whole time.

It seems obvious that people couldn’t hear her very well. I would give Tez the benefit of the doubt if I hadn’t heard so many stories about her before. Once a Tez, always a Tez. It seems like there should be a family phrase like, “Don’t be a Tez.” I’ve never heard that, but I have heard, “Don’t be a Manette.” How is this possible? The only Manette I recall was a sweet old matriarch of the Bouquet family. I think there was another Manette that wasn’t so sweet. (Maybe Therese Daigre Barker knows more.)

And so ends the Patureau reunion posts…at least for this week…I think. Thanks again, Craig.

 

 

Saturday Surprise: The Real 1992 Patureau Reunion

I posted a photo two weeks ago that I claimed was the 1992 Patureau Reunion. I had some assistance in making that claim, but I will take the full blame. Now some evidence has surfaced that makes me think that the video was not from 1992.

Since I have been proven wrong once on this issue, I will not make another claim about the date of this photo. Let’s just say it was around 1992, but it wasn’t 1992. How’s that.

And I am going to share with you the evidence that was shared with me. It is a copy of a videotape that Craig Pays found recently. He is the same one that provided the photo. In the beginning of the video, a girl (presumably a Patureau relative) states that it is 1992. Later in the video cousin Linda Cansler talks about the family lines of Patureau that were represented. She does not mention Grampa Max (my great grandfather Vincent Maximilian Patureau). So me nor Tez was there that year.

 

 

The Landry Brothers of Lake Charles

A. J., Rob, Johnny, Bobbie, and Hubert Landry circa 1939

Some of you may have seen this photo before.  I know it was posted on Facebook at least once.  I copied it from there and I’m not even sure who it came from.  But I haven’t used it for my family history posts, so I will now.  Besides, I’m running really low on Landry photos.  I need some of you cousins to send me some scans or photos of some of those old photos you have.  I know there must be more out there.  I’ll be searching, too.

This is a really good photo of the Landry men in 1939.  Of course, not all of them were men just yet at that point. The photo has my grandfather – or Pee Paw as the grandchildren called him – with his four sons.  From left to right are A. J. (Alcide Joseph), Pee Paw (Robert Joseph Landry, Sr. or Rob or Pappy), Johnny, my dad Robert Joseph or Bob, and Hubert.

Growing up, I didn’t really notice that much difference in the ages of my uncles.  They were adults, after all, and I was just a silly little boy.  The difference in their ages is very noticeable at the time the photo was taken.  A.J. was about 15 years old and the oldest boy, while Johnny was the baby of the family at 3 years old.  I noticed the same thing in a photo I posted of my mom’s siblings a few weeks back.  The oldest two look like adults while the other three looked more like children.

My mom always told me that the Landry family had a very good and respectable reputation in Lake Charles.  I would have to agree and say that these men did a good job in adding to that favorable family reputation.

 

Just a Lazy Day Circa 1938

Betty, Marguerite, Alma, Myrtle, Daisy, and Sylvia circa 1938

Here’s an old photo that could easily be overlooked.  I really don’t remember where it came from.  I’ve scanned old photos and slides, I’ve taken photos of other people’s photos, and I’ve collected digital files from other family members.  For some reason I think it’s an old photo I scanned, but I can’t put my fingers on the original.

It’s funny how some photos are overlooked in a photo album.  Maybe it was small or the people were a bit blurry, but it wasn’t something that stood out to me.  But when I start to look through photos to scan, I start to notice details about photos that are interesting.  And sometimes the scan is much better than the original photo.

Since I can’t find the original right now, I don’t know if the scan looks better.  But there is something sweet about this old photo from around 1938.  On the far left is my mom Betty Lou Bucklin standing at what I think is the back of someone’s house.  I’m thinking it is her Phenice grandparents’ home because that grandmother is in the photo, as well as a Phenice aunt.  Mom would have been 5 years old at the time. Looking toward her is her Phenice aunt Marguerite, who was a single girl of 20.

In front of Marguerite is one of my mom’s younger sisters Alma.  She is a happy little 3-year-old girl in this photo.  The next person is uncertain.  I’m thinking it could be Marguerite’s older sister Grace.  She was 35 at the time, so that might be right.  Maybe someone else knows who she is for sure.  (See update.)  The woman who is sitting on the steps is Marguerite and Grace’s mom, Betty Lou and Alma’s grandmother, and my great grandmother, Daisy Henrietta Martha Keys Phenice.  She would have been the 62-year-old matriarch of this little group.  The 7-year-old girl on the tricycle is my mom’s older sister Sylvia.

It just seems like an idyllic spring or summer day.  Spending time with family doing little or nothing, but enjoying every minute of it.  You can’t go wrong with that.


11/10/2018 Update: After much discussion among the cousins (and Aunt Loris) on Facebook, it has been determined that the unidentified woman in the photo was my grandmother Myrtle Sylvia Phenice Bucklin. That was a nice surprise. It makes the photo that much more special to me. So this photo shows three generations of my family along my maternal line.

I also was able to figure out where I got the image. It was from a group of old photos that I copied for Grandma back around 1979. She let me borrow some of her favorite photos to photograph with my old SLR camera, and this was one of them. I rediscovered the old forgotten negatives a while back. It makes even more sense that it was a photo of her with her mom, sister, and daughters. One that she cherished. And now, so do I.

Patureau Reunion 1993

One of my Patureau 3rd cousins Craig Pays sent me a photo this week.  It was a photo that his mom had saved.  His mom was Merlyn Agatha Patureau Pays and she was the 2nd cousin of my dad Robert Joseph “Bob” Landry.  Merlyn’s father was Peter Alexander “Alex” Patureau, who the first cousin to Bob’s mother Germaine Erie Patureau Landry.  Alex was the son of Louis Leobon Patureau, and Erie was the daughter of his brother Vincent Maximilian “Max” Patureau.  Louis and Max were sons of Ferdinand Pierre Patureau, the patriarch of the Patureau family in southern Louisiana and beyond.

Patureau family reunion on June 5, 1993

I was very excited to see this photo.  Not only was it the first time I’ve ever seen a photo from this reunion, but it is a photo of me with one of my most notorious cousins.  I’m speaking of Therese Wynhoven Mouton, who most of us call Tez.  (She was the daughter of Emma Patureau Mouton, the sister of Erie, my beloved Mee Maw.)  Tez actually has a number of nicknames, some of them not as nice as others.  One of the other ones that I’ve heard is “Wynie,” which is derived from her middle name.  But when I heard it spoken, it sounded like “whiney.”  It seems like Craig and his family just referred to her as Therese.

It also seems like Craig and his family were visited by The Uninvited Guest (aka The Bumply UG) as well.  It was a kick to share stories about our kooky cousin.  According to him, Therese would show up uninvited and start bossing people around.  Who ever heard of such a thing?  And she expected people to wait on her as she lounged around their house!  My goodness!

Craig said he had to speak up when Tez (sorry, that’s how I know her.  ‘Therese’ just doesn’t fit her as well) shooed away the family cat so she could sit in the chair it had been occupying.  Obviously it must have been a young cat who hadn’t learned to hide at the beginning of a visit from Tez.  Our family learned that lesson right away. (to avoid the obligatory greeting with a kiss)  Even family pets were known to make themselves scarce for the infrequent (yet too frequent) visits from the Bumply UG.

Nevertheless, I was excited to have a photo that included myself and Tez.  And we’re standing right next to each other!  How awesome is that?!  I have grown quite fond of Tez, now that I don’t have to be put out in my own house.  No more red kimonos coming down the stairway.  No more opera blaring through the house.  No more clouds of Cashmere Bouquet following behind Cousin Wart.  (Oops, Paula made me do that!)  At least we can share our fond memories of her and have a laugh.  Actually I’d like to hear a few more of those stories from Craig’s part of the family.  Feel free to leave a comment.

1993 Patureau Reunion with labels

I’d also like some help to identify as many people as we can in this photo.  I’ve named just a few.  I’m pretty sure that is Patricia Marionneaux in front of me in this photo.  Correct me if I’m wrong. (I was corrected.  It is actually Sylvia Schafer Daigre, first cousin to Patricia and my dad.)  I gave everyone a letter and a number (A1, A2…B1, B2…L5), so if you use that to identify a person, that would help.  I’ll update it as time goes by.

One more request.  If you have any more photos of Patureau reunions, I would love to have a copy of them.  Not just from this reunion, but I heard there was another one in Franklinton at Craig’s parents’ place.  I know I went to Tez’s place in Duson for a get together as well.  That was many years ago, but I’m sure somebody must have taken a photo or two.

Thanks for the photo, Craig.

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