The Old Swing Set

My younger sister Jamie shared a post this week about preschool. It said that structured learning at a young age was not as beneficial as play. I’m glad to know that. I never went to preschool and when I was young, it seemed like all we did was play. And when you have five brothers and sisters, you always have someone to play with. The photo that represents this topic is this photo of all of us siblings on our old swing set in 1965.

Rob (with Princess), Van, Al, Jamie, Jodie, and Karen Landry in 1965.

As you can see, there was room for all of us at once. Though Rob isn’t on the swing set, he is in the photo playing with our dog Princess. She was a good dog. I remember that she had at least one litter of puppies while we lived there. I used to crawl under the house to gather up all the puppies so we could play with them!

I am the little boy closest to Rob in the photo. I was only four years old at the time, but I have lots of memories from that old house “out in the country.” It was north of Jennings (about half a mile north of I-10) on Highway 26. We rented the house for two years or so from 1963 to 1965. It was preschool for me, Al (to the right of me), and Jamie (to the right of Al). Rob, Jodie (with the baton), and Karen (on the trapeze) had already started their formal education.

That swing set was lots of fun. It was a little scary at times when we were all swinging at once. If too many were on the same side at the same time, it would start to tump. We liked the way it gave us butterflies when we’d go really high. And we always tried to jump just a little bit further than we did the time before. We learned to hang from our knees and our toes on that old swing set! And sometimes we’d Skin the Cat. But don’t worry, we’d always Bring Him Back.

We also had an old trike that we’d ride around. There was a wagon that could carry a couple of kids with armloads of puppies. I remember being scolded not to touch a baby bird that fell from the fig tree. If we did, the mother would reject it. Nobody wanted that. We had a sand pit that was somewhat fun. I seem to remember my mom saying that the cats used it for other purposes than playing. I do remember there being a wasp nest in it. (It was a round brick structure with a ceiling from what I recall. That sounds rather odd now that I say it. It seems like a sand pit should just be a boxed in area with sand in it. What say you, siblings?)

Toward the back of the yard was an old rusty barn. We’d rub our hands on it and make our palms red. It seemed fun at the time. Inside the barn was the wooden framework of an airplane. I don’t think we were allowed to play in there, but we’d peek in from time to time. We had cats and dogs as well as horses and cows. (some with feathers!) It was great fodder for young developing minds.

But all we were really concerned about was having fun.

The Mother of Us Landrys was a Babin

I was thinking of naming this post “Joseph Ignatius’s Mother Was a Babin,” but decided to give her a little more prominence than that. I wrote about Joseph Ignatius a few weeks ago to talk about the five ways my tribe and I descend from that ancestor. This week I’m going a generation back to talk about his mother.

The ancestor I’m talking about is my great great great great grandmother Marie Magdelena Babin. She was born in Pisiquit, Acadie, around 1725. She married Augustin Landry some time around 1747. He was a widower and he had two children by his first wife Ann Rivet. Magdelena probably took care of her step-children Maria and Joseph Marie as well as the children that she and Augustin soon started having. Magdelena gave birth to Joseph Ignatius, Mathurin, Marie Madeleine, and Marguerite. There were most likely more children born that did not survive, but the ones I named have documentation.

At some point during this time of child-bearing, Magdelena and Augustin, along with the children born by 1755, were ripped from their homes by the Grand Derangement. The English took over the land that they wanted for their own subjects and sent the Acadians away violently. The Landry family spent about a dozen years in Exile in Maryland where the last of their children were born. I can’t imagine rearing six children during their formative years in a foreign environment where you didn’t feel welcome.

Things changed in 1767 when Spain offered land grants to settlers who wanted to relocate to Louisiana. The Landrys decided to take a chance in Louisiana. They were aboard the ship “The Virgin” that brought a load of ‘French neutrals’ to Louisiana on July 12, 1767. They brought with them all of their worldly possessions. That amounted to two trunks and everything they contained. They were given 8 arpents of land fronting on the Mississippi River.

This was really a huge turning point in the lives of our ancestors. I came to this realization this week when I found the document that inspired me to write the topic of this week. I’m a little reluctant to say that I was a bit touched by this document. The document is titled “Succession Vve. Augustin Landry” and the date is March 25, 1814. “Vve.” is the abbreviation for veuve, the French word for widow. So it is the succession information for our Magdelena. It was written by John Dutton, Judge of the Parish of Iberville.

What was so touching to me was the way Judge Dutton talks about entering the Landry home after Magdelena’s death. He talks about her death being two days previous (on the 23rd), and how he walked into the principal hall and placed a seal on the large armoire (painted red) he found there. It sounds like he was making sure that her legal possessions were not disturbed until there was an inventory a few days later. He proceeds down the hall and puts another seal on a “door of a chamber in the back gallery…”

Judge Dutton also mentions family members that he interacted with and were present at the Landry home. Joseph LeBlanc dit Michel was her son-in-law. He was the husband of Marguerite and son of Michel LeBlanc (hence the dit name). A John Baptiste a gros LeBlanc is mentioned, but I can’t figure out his connection to the family. (See update below.) Two witnesses are named. Aubry Dupuy was the brother to our Magloire Dupuy . Antoine Serrette is another witness and he was the brother of Henriette Serrette, Magloire’s wife. Ten years later, Magloire and Henriette‘s daughter Zerbine would marry Joseph Ignatius’s son Elie Onezime Landry.

It is such a revealing document from over 200 years ago. I was happy to see that this first generation of Acadians in Louisiana were prosperous. This can be seen by the list of their belongings on this and further documents. It included much more than what could be placed in two trunks. I was not happy to see more individuals who had been enslaved by my family. Though it sounds like these individuals were treated considerately, it was still within the confines of slavery.

It also seems like the family was coming together for Magdelena’s funeral. She lived to be almost 90 years old. Oh, what a story she could have told! So by the time of her funeral, her children (natural and step) had children of their own. All but one of the children (Marguerite) had predeceased her. But by the look of the names of witnesses at the bottom of the document, Magdelena’s family had come to her house to mourn or to celebrate her life. Included in that list is Emanuel Landry, one of her three grandsons that I descend from. Other grandsons include Elie, Bellonni LeBlanc, Xavier Landry, Josephe Landry, and Ursin Landry. Pierre Paul LeBlanc was a grandson-in-law.

And now all of us, her great great great grandchildren and beyond, are celebrating her life again.


April 2, 2021 Update – I recently found the connection to John Baptiste a gros LeBlanc. Marie Magdelena (Widow Landry) had a daughter named Madeleine who married Joseph a gros LeBlanc. (Yes, sister Marguerite married another Joseph LeBlanc, but that one was dit Michel.) Joseph a gros LeBlanc had a brother named Jean Baptiste a gros LeBlanc, who I’m pretty sure is the John Baptiste a gros LeBlanc mentioned in this succession paper.

Old Phenice Memorabilia

I can’t remember when I first saw this old letter and old copy of a photograph. I seem to recall seeing a Xerox copy of the photograph in my mom’s collection of Phenice family history many years ago. I’ve already shared a copy of the letter that my great great great grandmother Susan Jackson Phenice (wife of Daniel Phenice) wrote to her daughter-in-law Ida Fitzgerald Phenice (wife of Daniel Abraham Phenice). The letter I’m sharing this time was written much more recently. The older one was written in 1877 and the more recent one was written in 1975. Here is the first page of that 1975 letter.

1975 letter from Meredith Compton Gibson to Gerald Z. Phenice p. 1

The letter was written by Meredith Compton Gibson (1924-2002) to Gerald Z. Phenice (1909-2001). Their correspondence started in 1973 when Meredith found Gerald’s name in a Columbus, Ohio, phone book. Since his last name was the same as her grandmother’s maiden name (Maud Phenice Martin – the daughter of Ida and Abraham Phenice mentioned earlier), she wrote to him to find out what their connection was.

As it turned out, Gerald and Meredith’s father Harry Dale Compton were second cousins. They were both great grandsons of Daniel and Susan Jackson Phenice. So they corresponded for a while. I found this one really interesting because it identifies all of the family lines that Meredith, Gerald, and our family group descend from.

Meredith comes from the Daniel Abraham (1852-1900) line. His daughter Maud was the mother of Harry Dale Compton. Harry was the father of Meredith. A sad part of this story is that Maud had a sister named Gertrude that died as a teenager around 1900. This tragedy struck Abraham particularly hard and he ended up committing suicide shortly after her death.

Gerald comes from the William Henry (1840-1914) line. William Henry was the oldest son of Daniel and Susan Jackson. He had a son named Milroy Morton Phenice. Milroy was the father of Gerald. Gerald was actually the youngest of four children.

My family line comes from Samuel Charles Phenice (1844-1939). Samuel had the longest lifespan of all of his siblings. He lived to be 95 years old. Not bad for a Civil War soldier who was injured in battle. He was the father of my great grandfather Harry C. Phenice. HC was the father of Myrtle Phenice Bucklin. Myrtle was the mother of my mom Betty Lou Bucklin Landry.

The other great thing about the letter is that it included the photo of Samuel and his family that I mentioned at the beginning of this post. For the longest time, I read that second line as “1st wife Catherine Jane Foster Phenice” and wondered if there was a 2nd wife that I hadn’t found. I recently realize it says ” lso wife C.J.F.P.” The A is missing in ‘Also’ because of a typo with the old typewriter she was using to type that letter! Long before SpellCheck!

As you can see, it is a poor quality image. It looks like a Xerox of a Xerox. She obviously had a better quality photo that she sent, because she encourages Gerald to look at the photo with a magnifying glass. A magnifying glass won’t help now. You might get a better view of those large Phenice ears that she talks about in the letter! If you look closely at the names, you can see that she wrote one of the daughter’s names as Myrtle and then tried to remove it all and replace it with May. I think she had it right the first time. I think this is Samuel and Catherine with their daughters Emma and Myrtle with some of their grandchildren. It’s hard to tell with the blurriness of the photo, but the man in the right of the photo could be their son Edd.

William Henry Phenice circa 1850. Brother of Daniel Phenice

The other subject that Meredith talks about is an old tintype photo that her grandmother had sent her previously. She spoke about it in another letter as well, saying that it was taken in the 1850s. Her grandmother said it was Meredith’s 3rd great uncle William Henry. Daniel’s son by the same name was born in1840 and would have been too young in 1850s for this individual. So this would be Daniel’s brother. Since I don’t have a photo of my great great great grandfather (yet!), this is the closest thing that I have. She also said that Samuel had whiskers like this at one point. I’d like to see that, too!

I’m always on the lookout for more photos – either improved quality or ones I haven’t seen before. I have been looking for the photo of Samuel and his family for a few years. I’ve gotten others that I didn’t know about along the way. (Thanks to those Quillen girls and other cousins!) Since the letter was from Meredith Gibson, I thought of tracking down her descendants. I think the old letter from Susan Phenice was in her possession, too. I’d really like to get better quality scans of both.

1975 letter from Meredith Compton Gibson to Gerald Z. Phenice p. 2

So you can imagine my excitement when one of Meredith’s children showed up as a DNA match to me a few months ago! I don’t want to come across as all “Grab, grab, grab” when I introduce myself, so I try to be subtle. But I also don’t want any old family photos or letters destroyed either. I have to check on these things. So I sent off a message of inquiry and sat back and waited patiently.

I didn’t have to wait long. And I was so excited when I first started reading the response. “My mother was an avid genealogist.” Yes, I knew that. It went on about “totes chocked full of family history…” Yee Haw! I was really getting excited and it continued with “…letters and photos…often dozens of photos…with careful notes on the back…” You can only imagine my excitement. And then…

“I have not even popped the lid of the Phenice tote… My daughter is keeper of the totes…” Where is he going with this? “I will happily look into the Phenice material, but unfortunately…” No! No unfortunately! Not now! They were seeming so close! “the totes are buried deep in storage…daughter building a home…inaccessible for 12 months or so…” A year!? or so!? Say it isn’t so!!!

So I sent back a letter of feigned understanding.

And I sat back.

And I wait…

I Am a Patureau

Well, technically I am not a Patureau, I am a Landry. But my grandmother was a Patureau, so that makes me a Patureau, too. It’s funny how you tend to easily connect with those who share your common surname. With all the research that I have done, I tend to connect with several surnames. I was shocked recently when I asked someone what their grandmother’s maiden name was and they didn’t know! How can you not know your grandmother’s maiden name? It’s an outrage!

Standing in back: Unknown 1, unknown 2, Zita Patureau, Sylvia Patureau, Erie Landry (my Mee Maw) holding daughter Germaine Landry, Lidwin Patureau, unknown 3, unknown 4; standing in front A. J., Hubert, and Marie Landry (children of Erie), unknown 5, unknown 6. Circa 1928 (IDs provided by Sis)

It seems like I’ve always known that my Mee Maw was a Patureau. But it was not because there were lots of people named Patureau around me. There weren’t. One of the reasons for this is that Mee Maw had more sisters than brothers. My grandmother was Germaine Erie Patureau Landry. Her mother was Marie Therese Landry Patureau, who endured fifteen pregnancies.

She only lived a few days past her last pregnancy. Eleven of her offspring were girls, though only seven of them survived to adulthood. Four of her offspring were boys and two of them died in infancy. Additionally, neither of the two who attained adulthood (Romuald and Vincent) had any offspring.

So my great grandfather Vincent Maximilian Patureau had many grandchildren, but none of them carried the Patureau name. I noticed this a few years back and I had to ask Daddy about it because it seemed so unbelievable. To have that many children, yet not have any grandchildren with your last name. I’m sure he was okay with it. His mother was a Landry, his wife was a Landry, and eight of his grandchildren were Landrys. He was a Landry like I am a Patureau. It’s all family.

Louis Leobon with five of his seven sons. From left to right are Alex, Allen, Abel, Louis Leobon, Richard and Edmond. Missing are Pierre and Arthur. Circa 1927 (Photo from another “Patureau” Terry Knight.)

Then there was Grampa Max’s older brother Louis Leobon. He and his wife only had twelve children. The slackers! They had eight boys, though one of them (Louis Leobon, Jr.) died as a teenager. There were also four daughters named Alizia, Leona, Caroline, and Bertha. All of them were first cousins to my Mee Maw.

I don’t know who had more grandchildren: Max or Leobon. But with all of those male children, I know that Leobon had at least fifteen grandsons with the Patureau name. So even though I don’t have any first or second cousins with the last name of Patureau, I have many third cousins out there with that surname. In fact, if you meet a Patureau in southern Louisiana, it’s almost a guarantee that they are my third cousin.

But there are even more like me. We descend from a Patureau and have a different last name. Be it Landry, Duffy, Raley, Winn, Marionneaux, Barker, Boudreaux, Daigre, Vicknair, Stassi, Gunn, LeBlanc, Wendt, Mouton, Pitre, Pays, Knight, Amann, Zimmerman, Desonier, Conaway, Bourgogne, McLaughlin, Sicard, Guelfo, Scruggs, Written, Cropper, Barlow, Blanton, Rush, Martin, Rabalais, Kerr, McGown, Cansler, Hebert, Thommen, Dupuy, Schroeder, Soliman, Keegan, Hartz, Crandell, Llanas, Laulom, or Crixell – we are all Patureau. We should have a reunion!