A Patureau Wedding From 1933

As you can tell by now, I really like old photos.  Especially those of my own family.  I also like photos with large groups of people in them.  Wedding photos are nice, too.  So this old photo is particularly nice because it has all of those elements in it.  Of course, it’s really not that old.  It’s only from eighty-four years ago.  It was taken a month after my mom was born.  But it’s from my dad’s side of the family.

This photo is from the wedding of Marie Therese “Bee” Patureau and Clarence Schafer on June 19, 1933.  It looks like a very nice affair.  The wedding took place at St. John’s Cathedral in Lafayette, Louisiana.  Bee was the younger sister to my Mee Maw (Germaine Erie Patureau was the mother of Bob Landry, my father), who I can’t find in this photo.  I know that she was there, because there is another photo of the event that supposedly shows her. (It doesn’t look like her to me.)  Erie and Bee’s father was Grampa Max (Vincent Maximilian Patureau) who is standing proudly in the middle of his large family.

The wedding couple are seated in chairs with the bride surrounded by many bouquets of flowers.  Sylvia (another Patureau sister) and her husband Son Marionneaux are directly behind the bride.  On each side of Sylvia are two more Patureau sisters.  (Neither of which is wearing a hat.)  On the left is Lidwyn and on the right is Emma.  Emma is the mother of Tez.  Tez was just a 12-year-old girl at the time with no signs of bumps to be seen.  She can be seen sitting on the ground directly in front of her mother.  Her father is the tall man in the back at the center of the photo.  His name was Toby Mouton.  The other Patureau sibling in the photo is Mee Maw’s brother Rome (rhymes with homey) on the far right.

Sadly, the marriage was not very long lasting.  The shortness of duration was not due to a lack of affection nor infidelity nor infelicity.  The end of the marriage was due to the death of Bee only a short four years later.  But not before the births of her two daughters Syl in 1934 and Sis in 1937.

We can thank Sis for sharing this photo with us.  It really is a beautiful photo.  Full of familiar and familial faces at a happy moment in their lives.

Invitation to the festive occasion.


July 5, 2019 – I found this newspaper article about the wedding.  It ran in Lafayette’s “The Daily Advertiser” on the day of the wedding.

Depression Era Bucklin Babies

Here is a photo of my mom’s family toward the end of the Depression.  The Depression officially started on October 27, 1929, and lasted for about a decade.  My grandparents Fred Bucklin and Myrtle Phenice must have been dating when it started, because they were married a few months later on Mar. 12, 1930.

Bucklin family of Hathaway circa 1938

This photo was taken around 1938.  I base this on the fact that the youngest one in the photo is aunt Loris who was born at the end of August in 1937.  She looks to me to be a few months old.  Grandma and Grandpa would have been in their early thirties at this point.  The girls in the front (starting with the oldest on the left) are Sylvia at age 7, Betty Lou at age 5, and little Alma at age 2.

It looks like Betty Lou is a bit shy and is hiding behind her big sister.  It reminds me of a photo of our family when we were young and Jamie is doing the same thing next to me.  I wonder what Alma was distracted by.

It’s not a professional photo, but like I said at the beginning, it was during hard times.  Grandpa was a nurseryman during this time and grandma helped him out with that.  I know they didn’t have a lot of money at the time because my mom talked about how special it was that her cousin had a ‘real’ doll to play with.  Obviously this means that my mom and her sisters did not have store-bought dolls to play with during this time.

But things were different back then.  People were not used to the prosperity that seems so prevalent now.  The family seemed to deal with it all pretty well.  My mom was quite frugal all her life.  It really wasn’t necessary for her to tape up ziploc bags to store things in her purse!  But she couldn’t be persuaded.  She should be named the patron saint of recycling!

A Bazaar Picnic

I’m not really sure about the circumstances of this picnic.  But for some reason the photos and the writing on the back of them has captured my attention.  At least for now!  As much as I like old photos of my ancestors, the addition of seeing their handwriting in letters or on photos is a nice bonus.

 

These photos were taken around this time of year, but they were from 63 years ago.  The exact date was October 17, 1954.  This first photo shows uncle Duffy, my cousin Douglas Winn, my Mee Maw (paternal grandmother Germaine Erie Patureau Landry), another cousin Dennis Landry, uncle Joe Raley, and aunt Frances Raley.  The little girl sitting on the blanket in the front is not identified.  I’m thinking it is another cousin Daphne Winn, because she looks to be too young to be The First (Shirley Landry) who would have been seven at the time.  It’s Mee Maw’s writing on the back, because as you can see, she labels herself as ‘me.’

The grand occasion for this picnic was named on the photo.  It reads, “The St. Huberts (sp) Bazaar was held in Prejean’s pasture, so we went to Wana’s and I had a picnic in her back yard with children.  But we never could get them all together.”  I’m not sure if the Bazaar was canceled or it was just close to Wana’s house, but Mee Maw must have decided it was the perfect day for a picnic at her daughter’s house.  And those disagreeable children would not behave and get together for a group photo.  But we have the photos nonetheless to memorialize that outstanding picnic from years gone by.

This other photo is obviously from the same day.  But it was written by one of Mee Maw’s children.  (Hence the naming of Mee Maw as ‘Mama’ on the back of the photo.)  In this photo you see Duffy, Frances, Joe, Douglas, Mee Maw, and Dennis.  Even though the photo doesn’t mention it, you can also see the legs of the little girl on the blanket that I call Daphne.  (I’m sure Daphne has this photo with all the names on it too, but hers probably has her name written on it!  Unless of course, it is not Daphne.)

I like other details of the photo as well.  You can see the bottles of Coca-Cola on the blanket.  No canned sodas back then!  No red Solo cup either.  And Mee Maw was prepared, too.  She had a box of Cut Rite wax paper in her lap in case there were leftovers to save for later.

Oh, well, that’s it.  Just a short little picnic in Wana’s back yard.  Nothing fancy.  Nothing really important.  Not much to write about when you think about it.  But sometimes it’s those simple things that can be cherished the most.  What any one of her grandkids wouldn’t give to be able to have a nice little October picnic in their back yard with their beloved Mee Maw.

A Witness at Ford’s Theatre

I wasn’t sure what I was going to write about today, but then I saw a photo of my cousin Julie Phenice Campbell at Ford’s Theatre in Washington, DC.  I made a few comments and then realized that I hadn’t gone into the details of my great great grandfather’s Civil War experience.  So I’ve decided that the time is now.  Plus I have a really cool photo of him that I obtained this year.

Samuel Charles Phenice in his elder years.

Isn’t this a cool photo of an old grizzled man?  This is Samuel Charles Phenice later in his life. (He was the father of Harry Clifton Phenice, who was the father of Myrtle Phenice Bucklin, who was the mother of Betty Lou Bucklin Landry, who was my mother.)  He lived to the ripe old age of 95.  Any time I hear the question, “If you could visit one of your ancestors to have a conversation with them, who would it be?” I always think of the man in this photo.  So many questions that I would like to have answers to.  So much wishful thinking.  Let me tell you what I do know.

Samuel Charles Phenice was born in Mercer County, Pennsylvania, on April 19, 1844.  He was the fourth of seven children to Daniel Phenice and Susan Jackson Phenice.  The family must have stayed in that area during his childhood, because when he enrolled to fight in the Civil War, he would become part of the 57th regiment of the Pennsylvania Infantry out of Mercer County.  He was a private in Company F.

According to a document I found, the 57th regiment went on furlough on Jan. 8, 1864, for a period of 49 days.  When the soldiers returned to camp, there were a large number of new recruits.  Among those recruits was Samuel Charles Phenice, who had enlisted on Feb. 12, 1864.  During March they became part of the 2nd Brigade, which was composed of units from Pennsylvania, New York, and Maine.  In April Samuel celebrated his 20th birthday, though he was quoted as saying that he suffered “many hardships, hunger and thirst.”  Maybe a not-so-happy birthday.

On May the 3rd of that year, Samuel and his fellow soldiers marched to Chancellorsville, Virginia.  This is close to Spotsylvania and there were many skirmishes going on in the area.  The 57th, along with other Union troops, advanced along country roads and woods.  In one particularly wooded area on the morning of May 5th, Confederate forces were encountered and frenzied fighting took place.  The fighting was at short range (when you could see your enemies behind the trees) and was vicious, yet brief.  There were twenty-two killed, one hundred twenty-eight injured, and three missing.

Among those injured at the “Battle of the Wilderness” was 20-year-old Samuel Phenice.  He was shot in the left thigh – more specifically the “inner aspect of the thigh and about the middle of the thigh.”  Part of the information about the wound was gotten from a medical report from 1915 that reports that complications of varicosity of his leg was a direct result from the wounds received during the War.

Civil War hospital in the Spotsylvania, Virginia, area after the Battle of the Wilderness in 1864. (I found this photo online.)

After he was wounded, Samuel spent a while recuperating.  He went to a place that was probably very similar to what you see in this photo.  It is a photo of a makeshift infirmary in the Spotsylvania area after the Battle of the Wilderness.  I don’t recognize Samuel in the photo, but there is no way to make out some of these people.  On May 24, 1864, he was a patient at Carver General Hospital in Washington, DC.  A week later he was transferred to Haddington in West Philadelphia.

Once he recovered well enough, he became part of the “Invalid Corps” (9th Regiment of the Veterans Reserve Corps) on October 8, 1864.  The only posting that I know of was the one on April 14, 1865, at Ford’s Theatre in Washington, DC.  And everybody recognizes that place and date.  Samuel was stationed at the front of the theater checking passes of military personnel.  According to one account Samuel was an eyewitness to John Wilkes Booth’s entering the presidential box and shooting President Abraham Lincoln.  He also was a witness to the flight of the assassin.  So my great great grandfather was present at one of the defining moments in American history.

Samuel was honorably discharged from the military on July 5, 1865.  Though he would get married and raise a family, he would never forget those vivid events that he experienced as a 20-year-old young man.  He obviously liked to recall the events, because there are several articles about him speaking about it.  One says “Phenice often recalled the wild scenes in the theater after the shooting.”

Oh, to be able to hear those stories in his voice.  Like I said at the start of this story, I would love to be able to pull up to Great Great Grandpa Samuel’s rocking chair and say, “Grandpa, tell me ’bout the good ol’ days.”  My excitement would build as he’d rock back with a grin on his face and say, “Well, now, young man, that may take me a while…”