Sue & Jennie’s 20th Birthday Bash
I have written a few posts that mention the 20th Annual Birthday Celebration of Mrs. Susan G. Hine and Mrs. W. E. Havenar. My cousin Joseph shared some old photos from that event, so I shied away from writing about it before. But I need to write about it. There are some things I want to say. First of all, the Sue mentioned in the title would be my great great grandmother Susan G. Stanbrough Hine. I usually like to refer to her as Grandma Sue. She was the mother of six children, and the oldest was her only daughter Addie May Hine Bucklin. Addie was the mother of my grandfather Fred Bucklin. He was the father of Betty Lou Bucklin, who was my mother. The Jennie mentioned in the title was Edessa Jane “Jennie” Welton Havenar. The two of them were friends who happened to share the same birthday: October 3.
The newspaper article about the two women celebrating their birthday talk about how it was the 20th annual celebration. Does that mean it was the 20th time they had the party? I don’t really need to be that picky, but I also have an article from 1906 that describes that first celebration. If they had it every year after that, the celebration in 1926 would be the 21st time they had it. But it would also be the 20th anniversary of their first big bash. Either way, Sue was celebrating her 75th birthday and Jennie was celebrating her 60th. Grandma Sue is the older woman on the right side of the photo in the black dress.
Many of their family members and friends were also celebrating these two girls’ birthday. And many of their family members and friends were relatives of mine. There were family members from all of my mom’s side of the family. There were many Keys, Hine, and Phenice family members mentioned in the newspaper article. Both of my mom’s parents are in the photo, but it was before they were married. My grandparents Fred Bucklin and Myrtle Phenice were married in 1930.
I was going to say that even though they weren’t married yet, their families were already connected through the marriage of Fred’s sister Mary and Myrtle’s brother Sylvan earlier in 1926. But the newspaper doesn’t list them together. They list them separately as Mary Bucklin and Sylvan Phenice. And newspapers were very particular about how they listed married people back then. You see that Jennie is listed as Mrs. W. E. Havenar. That’s because she was married to William Edward Havenar AND he was still alive. Sue, on the other hand, was a widow. So they use her given name of Susan and call her Mrs. Susan G. Hine. If her husband had still been alive, they would have referred to her as Mrs. G. H. Hine – my great great grandfather was George Henry Hine. I like my posts to be more personal, so I refer to them as Sue and Jennie.
But the newspaper article lists Mary and Sylvan separately, so it makes me question the information I have about their marriage date. But I didn’t want to focus on them so much, I wanted to point out all of the family members that are in the photo. Fred is the guy on the second row with the bow tie. It might be his identical twin brother Clarence, but I think it is Fred. You can find Myrtle by following the large branch that comes in from the right of the large tree trunk. When it runs into the hat, the person in front of the hat is my grandmother. You can only see her head because she is directly behind two other women. If you look to the left of Myrtle, there is a man in a straw hat. That’s Myrtle’s brother Sylvan. Between Myrtle and Sylvan is Mary Bucklin. She is standing next to Daisy Keys Phenice, the mother of Myrtle. Myrtle’s father Harry C. Phenice is standing next to Daisy and is wearing a white shirt.
I’m not going to list everyone. I don’t even know them all. I just wanted to show you the ones I descend from. Even though Addie was at the event and is in several photos, I do not see her in this one. Her husband Louis Bucklin was also alive at the time, but he avoided having his photo taken. Part of that could be due to the fact that he lost an eye earlier on. He had a glass eye that I believe is in a cousin’s possession. I have never seen it – with either of my eyes. Louis died the following year. If you are interested in seeing more identified people, you can check out the post that Joseph wrote a few years ago. There is a photo with the people numbered so they can be identified. It is an ongoing project to identify as many of the people as possible.
Or you can just enjoy looking at all of the faces of the people who helped Sue and Jennie celebrate their birthdays all those years ago. It’s a great old photo.