Betty Lou Visits Arkansas in 1938

Christmastime in Fayetteville, Arkansas, in 1938.

I wonder if my mom would have remembered this event if she didn’t have the photos to remind her of it for the rest of her life?  It’s amazing what photos do to enhance your memories through the years.  I doubt that I’d remember what I looked like as a little kid if I didn’t have the photos to refer back to.  A picture tells a story – it’s like a thousand words or something.

You may think this photo looks familiar – or not.  Four years ago I posted another photo from the same day.  That photo only had my mom and the other little girl and the two dolls.  That post was about Girls and Their Dolls.  This one is not.  I’m not sure what it’s going to be about, but it’s not about girls and their dolls.  Or maybe it is.  That was the only thing my mom thought about when she talked about the photos from her visit to Fayetteville, Arkansas during the Christmas of 1938.

My mom is the little blonde girl on the left.  She is looking off to the side.  She never mentioned what she might have been looking at.  Like I said, she only talked about the dolls.  Her name was Betty Lou Bucklin and she was born May 20, 1933, in Hathaway, Louisiana.  She lived most of her life not far from there.  Her mother’s name was Myrtle Sylvia Phenice Bucklin.   Myrtle’s older sister Grace was married to a man named Ray Sowder.  Grace and Ray must have decided to take little Betty Lou with them to visit Ray’s family during the Christmastime of 1938, because the rest of the kids in the photo are Sowder relatives.

The two boys in the photo are the sons of Ray’s sister Alice and her husband Raymond Keith.  The little boy next to my mom is 2 1/2-year-old Donnie Keith.  He seems to be distracted by the same thing as my mom.  The other little boy is 4-year-old Paul Keith.  The other little girl is Kara Lee Sowder.  She was the daughter of Ray’s brother Hugh and his wife Bonnie.  But more importantly, she was “The Girl With the Two Dolls.”

And they weren’t just any old dolls.  They were store-bought dolls.  That was significant, because little Betty Lou didn’t have a store-bought doll.  So it was a really big deal to her that she got to play with a real doll and have her photo taken with it.  She cherished those photos for the rest of her life.

Come to think of it, she probably would have remembered that doll even if she didn’t have the photos to show it.  But since she did have those photos, now everyone reading this post can share that joyous experience she had in Arkansas back in 1938.

Bobbie and the Horsey

Bobbie Landry circa 1930.

Now here is an old photo.  I guess it’s not extremely old.  It’s only from 90 years ago.  It’s funny what you consider old when you get to certain ages.  When I saw these photos when I was a kid, they seemed so very ancient.  They were less than 40 years old back then.

This is a photo of my dad Robert Joseph Landry, Jr. when he was about 2 years old.  He was born at the end of January in 1929 and I’m thinking this photo was taken late in 1930.  I know for sure that it was taken in Lake Charles, Louisiana, at the home that he grew up in on Nichols Street.  I’ve seen that house in lots of other photos and it always seems to have a ladder leaning up against it.  What’s up with that?

And then there’s that horsey he’s riding.  Or is it a trike?  It looks like a cross between a rocking horse and a tricycle.  I looked it up online and found several images of this type of contraption.  Most of them are even older than this version.  They were a thing in the mid to late 1800s and some had steel wheels.  Maybe Mee Maw had one (or wished she had one) when she was a child and got one for her kids.

I looked further and thought that I found a name for them – velocipede.  I thought it was an interesting name, because it wasn’t a velociraptor.  It’s a horsey!  But then I saw that the definition of a velocipede is a human-powered land vehicle with one or more wheels.  Come to find out, I had a velocipede when I was a kid.

But it wasn’t a horsey velocipede!  My only consolation is that when I was riding a tricycle, we actually had horses to ride, too.  Yes, I had a pony!

The Cox Family in Boone County

George Henry Hine & Susan G. Stanbrough family in Boone County, Indiana, circa 1892.

I will be talking about the Cox family in Boone County, Indiana, but I don’t have photos of that family from earlier in the 1800s.  This photo is of the George Henry Hine and Susan G. Stanbrough family from 1892.  All of them were born in Indiana, but in Hamilton County.  If you’ve read all of my blog posts carefully, you would know who everyone is in the photo and how they are connected to the Cox family.  Let me go ahead and tell you.  Be prepared for a written test at a later date!

This photo has been posted before by my 2nd cousin Joseph.  He and his mom Louise have generously shared many photos with me and this is one of them.  There is also another photo that I’ve posted of this family from around the same time.  But in the other one, they’re just standing in front of their log cabin home.  This time they fancied it up with a backdrop.  Actually there are two backdrops.  It’s kind of funny because you can see that they just tacked up two blankets behind them and it doesn’t actually hide the exterior wall of the house they were trying to hide.

I edited this photo to clean it up a bit.  I could have cropped it and cloned portions to make the backdrop do what was intended, but that would have taken away from the charm of this photo.  In the back row you see Lonnie, Rowe, Addie (my maternal grandfather’s mother), and Bert.  In the front row are George, Ollie, and Sue.  To the far right is Jim Hine.  Addie was the firstborn with five younger brothers.  They were all about 2 years apart with Addie being born in 1876.

I’m sure you’re wondering why this family moved from Hamilton County to Boone County.  I am, too.  I don’t know the exact reason, but I do know that George’s mother’s family had lived there for about sixty years when this photo was taken.  His mother’s name was Mary Malina Cox and she was the wife of John Peter Hine.  Before that, she was the daughter of Benjamin Cox and Jemima Vestal.

Benjamin Cox married Jemima Vestal some time around 1816 in North Carolina, possibly in Randolph County.  Both of them were born in North Carolina.  Their first child was a son that they named Thomas in 1817.  He was named for Benjamin’s father.  They then had a daughter named Lavina in 1821.  Mary Malina was next in line and she was born in March of 1822.  Following her Asa was born in 1824 and John was born in 1826.  So what do they decide to do three years later?  They decided to make a move with their young family.

Benjamin Cox purchased land in Indiana in 1829.

Transportation in 1829 in North Carolina was difficult within the state.  But Benjamin and Jemima decided that they were going to be settlers in Indiana, which was about 600 miles away!  The only way to get there would be to cross a few states on a covered wagon.  I wish I knew the details of that journey.  Once they arrived it was basically wilderness with a few trading posts around.  Benjamin did get a plot of land on April 3, 1829.  Boone County wasn’t an official county until the following year.

After getting settled in Indiana, the family continued to grow with daughter Amy born in 1833, son William born in 1836, and daughter Mary born in 1838.  According to census records Benjamin was a farmer.  Jemima died in December of 1843 and nine months later Benjamin remarried.  He did not have any children with his second wife.

“The People’s Guide: A Business, Political and Religious Directory of Boone Co., Ind.,” 1874, p. 136

I found an interesting mention of Benjamin Cox in a book about Boone County.  It talks about him being one of the early settlers of the area and how he had to travel a ways to get his milling done during the early years.  He would travel with his mule team over rough roads and it would take more than a week to accomplish his task.  Along the way he’d spend the nights serenaded by bullfrogs.  No running water, no electricity, and no bed to sleep in was standard fare.  

The will of Benjamin Cox from 1877 in Boone County, Indiana.

He was alive when that book was written in 1874, but he died a few years later on July 29, 1877.  I found his will a few years ago and it lists all of his children who were alive at the time.  The youngest daughter Mary had died in 1858 at the age of 19.  Malina Hines is listed as an heir.  Her son George was 30 years old at the time.  Actually, my great grandmother Addie had been born a few months before he died.

What I find really interesting about that last statement is that I was born the month before Addie died.  It’s like we were bookends to her life.  For some reason I feel like I have a personal link to my great great great great grandfather Benjamin Cox who was born in 1796.  Now I too am a part of the Cox family of Boone County.

Landry Grandfathers

The research that I’ve been doing for the “From Acadian to Cajun” blog series has taught me a lot.  I’m working on a follow-up to the posts I’ve written about my Acadian ancestors who came to Louisiana.  That post will be about The Ones That Didn’t Make It.  Some of our ancestors died during the Exile, while others ended up settling somewhere else.  For these ancestors, it was their children that made it to Louisiana.

One example of that is in my Landry line.  The person in question is my 5x great grandfather Pierre Landry.   I’ve talked about him once before in regards to him living long enough to get to know his grandchildren in my line.  That post was four years ago in a post about my great grandfather Alcide.

What I mentioned was that in my line, I descend from the later children in the family.  This leads to grandchildren being born after the passing of their Landry grandfather.  I was born in 1960, which is three years after my Pee Paw (Robert Joseph Landry, Sr.) died.  My dad was born in 1929, which was ten years after Alcide the Great died.  Pee Paw was born in 1893 and his grandfather Narcisse had died in 1876.  Alcide was born in 1845 and his grandfather Joseph Ignatius had died in 1806.  Narcisse was born in 1796 (first generation born in Louisiana) and his grandfather Augustin had died in 1781.

Now here is where there is a difference.  Joseph Ignatius was born around 1753 (the last generation in my Landry line to be born in Acadie) and his grandfather Pierre didn’t die until 1786 at the age of 94 years old.  So he and his grandson Joseph Ignatius were alive at the same time for 33 years.  Going back further, Augustin was born in 1719 and his grandfather Antoine had died in 1710.  Pierre was born in 1690 and his grandfather Rene died two years later.  Most people don’t have memories from before they were two years old.  And they didn’t have photos to show that help to build memories.  Antoine did not know his grandfather, because his father Rene had immigrated to Acadie before Antoine was born.  Nobody knows who the father of Rene was.

So it looks like the only one that would have memories of his Landry grandfather probably didn’t have any.  That’s right.  In the one instance where the grandfather lived long enough, the family was ripped apart by the Grand Derangement in 1755.  So Joseph Ignatius was only two years old when his part of the family was Exiled to Maryland.

I’m not really sure what happened to grandfather Pierre in 1755.  Some Acadians had made their way to Ile St. Jean after the English came back into possession of Acadie.  They didn’t trust the English with their insistence on signing an unconditional oath, so they went to a place still controlled by the French.  Pierre eventually made his way to Maskinonge, Quebec, which is where he died in 1786.  At least two of his sisters had made it to Quebec as well, though they both died about 20 years before he did.  Five of Pierre’s children died before he did as well, though we don’t know if he was aware of that fact.

As we saw in the information about the Dupuis line of the family, people did not get much information about their family members in other countries.  Marie Josephe Dupuis made her declaration at Belle-Ile-en-Mer, France, and she wasn’t aware of the deaths of several of her siblings from a few years previous.  So it’s doubtful that there was much exchange of information between Pierre and Joseph Ignatius over the years that they were both alive.  Probably not even a stinking Christmas Card!

1996

Landry Family in 1996

Grandkids with Grammie in 1986.

So it wasn’t until my niblings’ generation that they were able to get to know their Landry grandfather in any significant way.  My dad’s first grandchild was born in 1981 and my dad passed away in 2017.  My dad had 35 years to enjoy being a grandfather.  And he got to enjoy them with a dozen grandkids when all was said and done.

Pappy (Robert Joseph Landry, Jr. or Bob) with his Landry grandchildren in 2007.

But more importantly, my nieces and nephews have lots of great memories of their Landry grandfather.  The same can not be said of any other known generation in my Landry line.  Oh, and by the way, we are definitely of the Landry line.  I had our YDNA tested and it matches other Landry testers.

Alex Landry with Pappy (Robert Joseph Landry, Jr.) and Grammie (Betty Lou Bucklin Landry)

And that Landry name is continuing.  Not with me.  I don’t have any children.  My older brother Al has children.  Al was born after Pee Paw died, so he didn’t know our Landry grandfather either.  But his children did know their Pappy Landry, as can be seen in these photos.

Louis Bucklin at 9

I’m being a bit bold with that title.  I’m not really sure how old Louis is in the main photo I’m talking about, but my guess was that he was nine.  So that makes the photo’s date as around 1882.  Louis Charles Bucklin was born April 11, 1873, in Masonville, Iowa, which is in the township of Coffin’s Grove in Delaware County.  His parents were James A. (possibly Austin) Bucklin and Mary Ann McGrath.  The Bucklin family was from Massachusetts and the McGrath family was from Ireland.

O weep not though cruel time, the chain of love has riven. To every link in yonder clime Reunion shall be given.

Rhoda Maria Gove Bucklin died in 1849. This grave was difficult to find since the name is given as Maria R. Bucklin.

James and Mary Ann were married in 1854 in Springfield, Massachusetts.  It was James’ second marriage and Mary Ann’s first.  James had married  Rhoda Maria Gove in 1843 probably in Ludlow, Massachusetts.  They had two children together, then Rhoda died in 1849.  At some time Mary Ann immigrated to the United States with her parents and siblings.  They settled in Palmer, Massachusetts.  Somehow she met widower James Bucklin and they got married.

James and Mary Ann settled in Palmer, Massachusetts, with James’ two children from his first marriage.  Eleven months later their daughter Jennie was born.  Almost six years later they had their first son together.  He was named Joseph C. Bucklin, but everyone knows him as Joe. 

The family then moved to Iowa before the birth of their next son Edd.  He was born March 8, 1864, in Sand Springs, Iowa, which is in Delaware County.  Their last child was Louis.  The spacing of the children seems a little odd.  There are gaps of 6 years, 3 years, and 9 years.  I haven’t found any mention of any children that died, but I wouldn’t be surprised. 

Louis Charles Bucklin circa 1882 probably in Iowa.

It was during the childhood of these family members that photography was getting to be affordable and available to families.  That must have been true for the Bucklin family because there are several old photos of this family.  The sad part of it is that many of the photos are unidentified.  One of the identified photos is this photo of Louis Bucklin.

Like I said at the beginning, he looks to be about nine years old.  In 1882 the family was still living in Coffin’s Grove, Iowa.  They did not move down to Louisiana until 1884.  I have tried to edit this photo in the past and have never liked any of the results, so I’m going ahead and posting it as is.  I like the photo.  He looks like a dignified little man in the photo.  His feelings about photos must have changed at a later date, because there aren’t any photos of him after he was married.

Edd Bucklin circa 1870

I’m going to share a few other photos as well.  The next one is another photo that was identified.  But this one is of Louis’s older brother Edd when he was a child.  He looks to be about six years old, so that would put the photo as being taken around 1870.  This is an enhanced version of the photo.  Of course, the photo of my great uncle looks great with edits.  The original photo is much better.

Unidentified boy from late 1800s. Probably a Bucklin child in Delaware County, Iowa.

This next photo is one that was not identified, but I’m starting to think that is was my great grandfather Louis.  I think it may be a little larger photo that looks like a post card.  It’s not like that small one of Edd that looks like a daguerreotype.  Also, this boy doesn’t have the same dour look that Edd has in the photo.  I think it looks like a younger version of Louis.  If it is Louis, it was taken around 1875 or so.  This is an enhanced version of the photo.  Sometimes my photo editing comes out good, but a lot depends on the quality of the original photo.

Tell me what you think.  Could it be Louis?