A Musical Bucklin Christmas in 1970

I’m following my yearly pattern of writing two Christmas themed posts before Christmas.  I’m actually posting three photos that were taken the same day.  Two of them were a bit blurry, so I was never that attached to them before.  But now that we are able to sharpen them a bit with software magic, I’m liking them a lot more.  I suppose I’ll start with the one that I’ve always liked, even though my face is not showing in it.  Just like last week!

Singing around the piano in Hathaway, Louisiana, for Christmas in 1970.

How could you not like this photo?  It’s such a cute photo of my cousin Charla and my sister Jamie.  You can tell that they are right in the middle of singing a song.  At least it’s obvious to me.  I was standing there listening to them as I was looking at my Zobor robot.  I loved that battery-powered mechanical robot!  Al and I both got robots that year for Christmas.  I think they were from Grandma and Grandpa.  It had replacement body parts and one of them was a magnetic hand.  I still have that piece!  Charla is sitting in my dad’s lap, and he is sitting on a stool near the piano.  Uncle Ronald’s head can be seen in the foreground on the right of the photo.  You know, the big blob that is blocking my face!

My mom is not in any of those photos, even though this blog post is about her side of the family.  She was Betty Lou Bucklin, the second child of Fred and Myrtle Phenice Bucklin.  We called them Grandpa and Grandma, and we would go visit them in the country every year on Christmas Day.  They were in Hathaway, which was only a ten-to-twelve-minute drive from our home in Jennings, Louisiana.  We usually visited them once or twice a month.

Mom had an older sister named Sylvia, and her husband was Ronald Pilcher – the man on the piano and blocker of my face.  He was a really good musician and mainly he played the piano and sang.  My dad was Bob Landry, and he was also a musician.  He played many musical instruments and sang.  But he was mostly known as a music educator.  It made him a legend!  So when the Bucklin family all got together, there was lots of music about.  The Bucklin family had always had musical get togethers long before these sons-in-law came along.  Mama and Grandma both played the piano and sang.  Even before that, Grandma’s parents played piano and fiddle.  I’ve shared some of those old recordings before.

Bucklin sons-in-law making some music during the 1970 Christmas gathering of the Bucklin family.

And then there was Uncle Ernest.  He was also a musical fellow.  I’m pretty sure he was involved with the church choir in the Baptist Church that he attended at the time.  That’s him in the white shirt in that second photo.  Ernest Woolley was his name, and he was married to my mom’s younger sister Loris.  I always remember them living in Texas around Houston.

One of the other things I like about these photos is that we can see a little bit of my grandparents’ home.  Their piano was in the living room of their house, and it looks like it was decorated a bit with some Christmas flowers.  On the wall behind them, you can see some family photos hanging on the wall.  One of them is our Landry family photo that we took in 1969.  Those photos were sent to everyone!  

Christmas 1970 in Hathaway, Louisiana, for the Bucklin family

The third photo is the one that I changed the most.  I sharpened it up a bit and also “restored” the color.  It needed it.  It was the 1970s.  Color was everything and everywhere.  And evidently for the Bucklin sisters, so were wigs!  That is Alma Bucklin Seal, Sylvia Bucklin Pilcher, and Loris Bucklin Woolley standing in the back of this photo.  They were my mom’s three sisters.  I’m pretty sure Alma and Sylvia are wearing wigs.  Loris looks like she’s showing off her own hair.

In the front are Daddy, Uncle Ronald, and Uncle Ernest.  So even though this was a Bucklin gathering, not one person with the Bucklin last name shows up in the photos.  The only ones with the Bucklin last name at the gathering were Grandma and Grandpa.  Uncle Austin had the last name, but I think he was living in Australia at the time.

I wish Grandma and Grandpa had shown up in the photos.  There were also a lot more cousins around.  There were five Pilcher cousins, four more Landry cousins, three Woolley cousins, and one more Seal cousin.  Where was everyone?  I know we were all there when the presents were being given out.  That was a big commotion and lots of fun.  Especially when you get something cool like Zobor.  Maybe they were too busy playing with their new presents to gather around for the singing.

At least we have these photos, and they’re better than they’ve ever been before!  Enjoy.

 

Christmas Eve at Mee Maw’s in 1965

The Landry family Christmas Eve Party in Lake Charles, Louisiana, in 1965.

It’s that time of year again.  I can’t let the year finish up without a recollection of a Christmas from the past.  I looked back to the 1960s for some inspiration and it didn’t take long to settle on this wonderful Christmas photo from 1965.

It would be even more wonderful if my face showed in the photo.  I’m in the photo, as are all of my siblings and my mom, but my head is eclipsed by my oldest brother Rob’s head.  My younger sister Jamie could be equally disappointed in the photo, because her face is blocked by Rob’s toy airplane.  But at least you can see one of her eyes!

I still think it is a wonderful photo.  It captures the closeness that our family had when we got together for these large family gatherings.  I think my dad took the photo and he did a good job of getting all the rest of us in the photo.  It’s really good of my mom (Betty Lou Bucklin Landry) and my grandmother (Germaine Erie Patureau Landry – aka Mee Maw).

Mee Maw was the mother of my dad (Bob Landry).  My grandfather (Robert Joseph Landry, Sr.) died in 1957.  I think they hosted the family get together at their home in Goosport (a section of Lake Charles) when he was alive.  Mee Maw carried on this tradition for several more years.  I have photos from 1961 and those were taken in the home in Goosport.  Then Mee Maw moved at some point.  I don’t have Christmas photos from 1962, 1963, or 1964, so I don’t know when she moved.  Can you believe that?  I don’t have photos from these three big events in my youth.  Maybe one of my cousins or siblings has one and can share it with me.  Wouldn’t that be wonderful?

But this photo is from 1965, and it is in the house that I remember her living in.  I think it was on 14th Street.  An early memory from Christmas might have been from this year.  I remember some of the older siblings and cousins saying that Santa would be passing over soon and we could probably see Rudolph’s shiny red nose.  I could just imagine a tiny red light high up in the sky drifting over us.  I remember peering up at the sky expectantly.  But then I got distracted by gifts that needed to be opened.

Let me identify everyone in the photo.  The girl in the lavender sweater with blond hair is my cousin Phyllis.  She was the youngest child of Ross Winn and Germaine Landry Winn.  They can be seen across the room under the double conical lights.  My mom is in the center of the left side of the photo looking toward the camera and smiling.  Coming down across the front of the photo there is Jamie with blond hair and only one eye showing, Rob with his fascinating toy jet that he is showing off, and behind him in the yellow and brown striped shirt is little Van – that would be me.  Stealing the spotlight front and center is cousin Greg Raley. Al is next to him, but he seems more interested in Rob’s jet at the moment.  In front of Al is cousin Lauren Duffy. In the red dress is Karen.  Behind her is our oldest sister Jodie.  She seems to be excited about something.  Next to her is Mee Maw, who has a very nice smile on her face in this photo.  She looks to be very content having her family around her like this.  

On the right side of the photo in front are two more Raley siblings – Jeanne and Scott.  The Raleys are the children of Aunt Frances Landry Raley and Uncle Joe Raley.  Aunt Frances can be seen in the back to the right in the white blouse.  To the left of her is my godmother Shirley Landry.  This was a year or so before she was married.  She was the oldest of all of us cousins.  Her mother is to the left of her.  Her name was Mildred Sutherlin Landry.  The last three people are my dad’s youngest brother’s family at the time.  Johnny is in the back left in the photo.  He was my godfather.  Next to him is his wife Sondra.  Uncle Johnny and Aunt Sondra were Karen’s godparents.  They were also the mother of Mona Landry, who can be seen in Sondra’s lap.

They were such idyllic times.  It was such a warm feeling to be part of this large family.  The comfort that it brought is long lasting.  Looking back to these seemingly simpler times makes you long for those members that we’ve lost along the way.  But at least we had them for a time.

Betty Strikes a Pose in 1984

Me (Van Landry) and my mom (Betty Lou Bucklin Landry) in Jennings, Louisiana, in the living room of our house at 758 Lucy Street.

For some reason I got it into my head that I was going to write about 1984.  It had nothing to do with the book of the same name, and I had no intention of writing anything so heavy and dark.  So when I sat down to write, I went to my computer folder to find my photos from 1984.  This is the photo that caught my attention.  The photo caught my attention several months ago, so I edited it and made it look its best.  At the time I had no intention of using it for a blog post.  I just wanted to make it look better for my collection of photos.

But how could I resist this photo?  It makes me smile every time I see it.  Just like I was smiling back in July of 1984 when I watched my mom strike this pose.  I have to admit that I don’t really remember that day in particular.  I (Van Landry) was 23 years old at the time and I was graduating from college that summer. My mom (Betty Lou Bucklin Landry) was 51 years old at the time and she had recently welcomed her second grandchild into the world.

Actually, I think both of those grandchildren show up in this photo.  Her first grandchild was Chris, who was born in 1981 before she reached her fifties.  Then the second one by the name of James was born toward the end of 1983.  I’m pretty sure it is Chris’s head that shows up in the bottom left corner of the photo.  He was a blond when he was that age and short enough to not block the view of me and my mom.  If the same setup was done today, you would only see Chris!  He’s a big guy and he’s much taller now.  At the bottom right are actually two heads.  My sister Karen’s head is the prominent one with the curls.  You can barely see past her to James’s cheek and his darker hair.  He must have been playing with his toy telephone.

Mama could have been playfully showing off for her young grandsons.  She only acted silly like that when she was completely comfortable and mainly it was around our family.  There aren’t many photos of that.  Maybe that’s why I like this photo so much.  It shows something that wasn’t easy to catch.  A moment of complete candor.  One of my favorite memories of one of these times was from 8 years earlier.

It was 1976.  The year of the bicentennial.  And the situation had all to do with the bicentennial.  Sure, a month before the bicentennial happened our family started performing together at the Shakey’s Pizza Parlor in Lake Charles, Louisiana.  I do tend to talk about our Landry Family Band when I talk about that time.  But today I’m talking about Sunday, July 4, 1976.  Yes, I had to do a search to find out the day of the week.  My memory is not as good as Jodie’s used to be.  She would always say what day of the week an event happened on.  Granted, we had no way of checking that back then.  We trusted her.  She was usually very honest, unless she was pulling our leg about something.  

Back to the bicentennial.  I know that I marched in a big parade in Lake Arthur that weekend.  Surely it wasn’t on a Sunday?  Right?!  Anyway, my mom was from Hathaway, Louisiana, and our family had a tradition of going out there to pop fireworks for holidays that required explosions.  The bicentennial of America’s birth definitely called for a trip to Hathaway with a stop at the fireworks stand on the way!  We had bottle rockets, firecrackers, sparklers, and assorted other things.  Nothing extravagant, just enough to celebrate appropriately.  While we were popping various things, my mom got a sparkler burning, raised it high in the air, and ran down the gravel road declaring, “I’m the Statue of Liberty!”  It was hilarious.

But I don’t have a photo of it.  Maybe I could edit this photo to make her look like the Statue of Liberty?  I could raise that arm higher and put a sparkler in it, then make her skin a bit green.  No!  Wait.  Someone might think she was a character from Wicked with a wand in her hand.  That wouldn’t do.  My mom wasn’t wicked at all.  I think I will just be satisfied that I have this photo from 1984 when she was striking a playful pose for her family.  It’s completely sufficient.

Landry Centennials

Rob Landry & Erie Patureau

Today completes nine full years of writing a weekly blog about family history.  That’s right!  I’ve written at least one post a week for the past nine years.  I’ve had a few weeks where I’ve added a Surplus Sunday or FollowUp Friday to the mix.  With all of that and including this post, I’ll be just four posts short of 500 posts.  Wow, that’s a lot of words and pictures.  The first post I wrote and the one from last week were about my maternal grandmother Myrtle Phenice Bucklin.

So it’s time for something from my Landry side of the family.  You would think with all of these posts I would have covered all of the major milestones in my families’ lives.  But I haven’t.  I’ve missed a few important anniversaries along the way.  So instead of giving a greatest hits recap, I’ll give a recap of a couple of posts that should have been.  

Newspaper article from Nov. 12, 1921, in Lafayette, Louisiana.

The post that I didn’t write in November of 2021 was about the marriage of my paternal grandparents Robert Joseph Landry and Germaine Erie Patureau:  Today is the 100th anniversary of the wedding of my paternal grandparents.  Rob Landry and Erie Patureau were married on November 12, 1921, in Lafayette, Louisiana.  I still find it hard to believe that there are no photos of that wonderful event.  I’ve never seen a single one.  According to the newspaper article, Erie was given away by her father Max Patureau and her sister Therese “attended” her.  There doesn’t seem to be any family disharmony going on.  It even says there was a nice reception with friends and family in attendance.  A few years later Therese was married and there are lots of photos of that event. 

I don’t know the story of their courtship either.  I think they knew each other their whole lives.  Rob Landry was a first cousin of Erie’s mother Marie Therese Landry Patureau.  Even though Rob was born and grew up in Westlake, Louisiana, and Erie was born and grew up in Crescent, Louisiana, the families would have gotten together through their formative years.  Even though I’ve heard that back then marriage between cousins was very common, it wasn’t true on my mom’s side of the family or other family trees I’ve seen.  My dad’s family tree is an entangled mess!  I think a big influence on that was the fact that they were of Cajun and French heritage, and they spoke French.  So there was more of a motivation to marry within your own group.  You could understand each other.  It doesn’t happen as much nowadays, so everyone looks at you oddly when you tell them your grandparents were related as closely as they were.

The other post that I didn’t write at the end of April in 2023 was about my paternal grandparents becoming parents:  Today marks the 100th anniversary of the day that Rob and Erie became parents.  On April 30, 1923, in Lake Charles, Louisiana, Rob and Erie Landry welcomed to their household little Marie Therese Landry.  Even though they started their family somewhat late, Rob was 30 and Erie was 27, they went on to have seven more children – ending up with a balanced group of four boys and four girls. 

They grew up in a close family and those siblings were close all of their lives. I’m glad to be part of that close-knit family.

 

 

 

 

 

My Father and Godfather in 1936

Bobbie, Johnny, Wana, and their mother Erie Patureau Landry in 1936 in Lake Charles, Louisiana.

It was pretty easy to pick out a photo for this week’s post.  I wanted one of my dad when he was a young boy.  When I saw this one of him with his younger brother Johnny when he was just a baby, I knew it was the one.  But then coming up with a name for the post was trickier.  While the main focus of the photo are the two boys, there is also a sister and their mother in the photo as well.  I don’t want to slight them!  I stuck with the focus of the photo.  Plus it is somewhat of a continuation of the post I did a few months ago when Uncle Johnny died.  

Actually it is a prequel to all of the photos that I’ve posted that include Uncle Johnny.  This is a photo of when he was a fresh little infant.  Isn’t that the sweetest little photo?  I kept the border on it, because it has a charm about it, and it points to the period of time when it was popular.   His full name was John Alfred Xavier Landry and he was born August 2, 1936.  I estimated that the photo was taken shortly after that.  He was the last of eight children.

On the left is my dad.  He was born on January 31, 1929, and was given the name Robert Joseph Landry, Jr.  He was named after his dad, obviously!  He was called Bobbie back then.  That name carried on, but he acquired more through the years.  Standing in the background, you can easily see their sister Wana.  She was four years old.  It’s surprising to see her with her hand covering her mouth.  That wasn’t typical in her later years.  She was a talker!  There is another sister standing in the background.  I’m not sure if that was Germaine or Marie.  I can’t really make out her face.  Too bad.

On the right edge of the photo, you can make out part of the profile of my dear sweet Mee Maw.  She was the mother of the children in the photo.  Her name was Germaine Erie Patureau Landry, but at the time she was just known as Erie or Mama.  She had been a teacher in Lafayette, Louisiana, in her early 20s, but gave that all up to get married and raise a family in Lake Charles.  I think she made the right choice.  She looks so content looking down at her youngest son.  She loved her children and later on, she loved all of her grandchildren.

Mon Pere et Mon Parrain en 1936.  I only have one negative thing to say about my grandmother.  But it’s not really something negative about her.  It’s about the situation that led her to make a decision.  There was a movement back then that led some educators in different parts of the state to punish children who grew up speaking French in the home.  The children would mainly speak French and that was frowned upon in some parts.  I’m pretty sure MeeMaw grew up speaking both French and English.  All of her ancestors spoke French.  She might have seen as a teacher the difficulty the French-speaking children had at school. 

She decided to only teach her children how to speak English.  I think she spoke French with Pee Paw or her sisters when she wanted to say something in private, but she didn’t speak it enough for her children to learn how to speak it.  So just like that, the family went from French-speaking and bilingual to English-speaking.  I am of two minds on the subject.  Part of it is the inevitable assimilation into a culture whose primary language is English.  Resistance is futile!  On the other side is the maintaining of different cultures within the large group. 

Her decision to teach her children only English led to another change:  they also married outside of the cultural (Cajun or French) group. (Or outside the family as I sometimes say!)  So I never wanted to speak French when I was growing up.  Actually, when we heard it on the local radio, it sounded funny to us.  We would just listen to the Cajun songs and laugh.  It wasn’t until I looked into our family history and saw so much French documentation that I started to regret the loss of something. 

If only we could have maintained both English and French.  There is a movement in southern Louisiana to preserve some of that Cajun and French heritage.  I, for my part, am learning French. Veut-tu faire quelque chose?

Another Photo of Alcide

That title really deserves an exclamation point at the end of it.  It’s not like I have several photos of my great grandfather Alcide Landry.  With some of my other ancestors, I have several photos of them and I don’t get as excited about finding new photos of them.  Don’t get me wrong, I’m always glad to find another photo of my ancestors.  That is especially true when the photo is over 100 years old.  That’s true about this photo, plus there is only one other photo of Alcide that I know of.  So to find a second one after all this time is very exciting.  It is exclamation point worthy!

Alcide Landry with railroad coworkers circa 1900

This is another photo from Box 301.  It was a box in my Aunt Wana’s attic that was recently rediscovered and shared with me.  I wasn’t really that excited when I got this photo, because it wasn’t labeled with any names or dates.  I didn’t look at it closely, because we were rushing through the photos so I could decide which ones I could take home with me to scan.  

I found this photo interesting because one of the reasons my Landry family moved from West Baton Rouge Parish to Calcasieu Parish around 1889 was for the railroad industry.  Those definitely look like railroad wheels in the photo.  My great grandfather Simon Alcide Joseph Landry moved their family to Westlake and began work at the railyards.  Some of his sons also worked in the industry.

Great grandpa Alcide was born in Brusly, Louisiana, on August 16, 1845.  Once he reached the age of 18, he joined the Confederate Army to fight in the Civil War.  A few years after the war ended, he married Marie Celeste Leveque.  I’ve written much more about her because she lived longer, and I have more photos of her.  My dad and his siblings had a few memories of her and spoke fondly of our Grandma Celeste.  Their first eight children were born in Brusly, and the last two were born in Westlake.  My grandfather Robert Joseph Landry was their last child born in 1893.

When I first started examining this photo to see if I recognized anyone, my focus was on the younger men.  I was wondering if my grandfather or one of his brothers was in the photo.  I have several photos of my grandfather and his brothers when they were young men, and they definitely had a look to them.  None of the young men in this photo had that look.  That’s when I looked closer at the older man in the dark overalls and the dark moustache.  There was something about him that looked familiar.

Alcide Landry circa 1890

Alcide went to work in Westlake at the age of 44, so he wasn’t exactly a young man.  When I compared the man in the photo to the only photo that I have of Alcide, I was surprised.  The hat in the group photo threw me off and I didn’t see the resemblance as much.  But it’s got to be him.  I think his nose looks somewhat wider in the individual photo of him, but that could be from the lighting.  The narrower bridge of the nose is a trait that all of his sons had.  The moustache looks the same in both photos.  I estimate the photo to be from around 1900.

You also have to consider where the photo came from.  It was in a box of old photos from my grandmother, but it had more photos of my grandfather’s younger days than any other collection.  So the photo is likely from my grandfather’s family.  Given that it is a photo of people at a railyard, that makes it even more likely that it is from his family.  It looks just like great grandpa Alcide, so who else would it be?

So I say yes, it is another photo of Alcide.  Behold!

Thunderbird Beach in 1961

The Landry Family arriving at Thunderbird Beach in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, on July 22, 1961.

I’ve been thinking about posting about Thunderbird Beach for a while.  I finally got around to cleaning up the photos from the time that our family visited “The Baton Rouge Riviera.”  These are some photos from early in my life.  This was way before our family was the entertainment at Shakey’s Pizza Parlor in Lake Charles, Louisiana.  It was before I got my first pair of contact lenses.  In fact, it was before I even wore glasses.  It was several years before our visits to Six Flags Over Texas and Astroworld.  We hadn’t yet visited NASA after the first moon landing.  It was even before we had our baby sister Jamie.  That’s a long time ago!

I have some vague memories from way back then.  I remember sitting in the back of that Volkswagen van when it was in the driveway of the house we lived in back then at 1317 Clover Drive in Lake Charles, Louisiana.  I don’t remember the curtains that are in the back that you can see in this photo.  My brother Rob said that my mom made them and put them up back there so we could change clothes after swimming and such. 

The Landry family entering Thunderbird Beach. The rides! The train! The slide!

These photos were taken on July 22, 1961.  I don’t know where that date comes from, but I don’t think I made it up.  My mom and dad were pretty good about putting that kind of information on photos from back then, but I can’t find the source of that date right now.  But it looks right from the ages of us kids in the first photo.  I was the little boy in the arms of my mom.  My name is Van, and my mom was Betty Lou Bucklin Landry.  I would have been nine months old at the time.  My older siblings from left to right are Karen, Rob, Al, and Jodie.  The family lived in Lake Charles at the time, so it would have been quite a trek to go to Baton Rouge back then.  It was before Interstate 10 was completed.

When we went to Baton Rouge then, we took the ferry across the Mississippi River.  There isn’t a photo of that from this trip, but there are some from other trips.  My dad had gone to LSU and got his Master’s degree from there in 1960, so he was familiar with the area.  If it had been up to my mother to go there, it wouldn’t have happened.  She wasn’t keen on driving in unfamiliar places.  She didn’t even get her driver’s license until around 1969.  But she knew how to accessorize a van to make it multifunctional!

The Landry family on the train at Thunderbird Beach in 1961.

When I asked Rob what he remembered about Thunderbird Beach, he mentioned the carousel.  I didn’t think I had a photo of that, but it’s in the second photo right behind his head.  I always tend to focus on Rob and Jodie with their rafts, Al standing out by the road looking back at the camera, and Karen helping Mama to push me in the stroller.  And then I would look at the sign identifying the place as Thunderbird Beach – Swimming – Dancing – Concessions!  There was something for everyone.

This third photo is my favorite.  It’s such a good photo of everyone and you can see our faces better because we’re not as far away from the camera.  Karen looks like something has caught her attention and she looks very interested in what she sees.  I wonder if it was the large slide at the park.  If it was, it’s because she hadn’t learned yet that she and slides do not get along.  I can still remember seeing her roll out the end of the big slide at Six Flags.  She was not too happy.  

I remember this little train that went around the park.  For some reason it made a lasting pleasant memory for me.  It wasn’t very big and it didn’t go very fast, so it couldn’t have been that exciting.  But for a little boy just learning about the world, I guess it was interesting enough.  Jodie looked pleased to be sitting and holding on to me so I wouldn’t fly out of the train.  She was always helping Mama to watch out for us.  That’s how she ended up being called “Little Mama” by the younger kids.

It wasn’t long after this that we got in a wreck and the Volkswagen was replaced by a Ford van.  I think we returned to Thunderbird Beach a time or two more.  I can’t imagine that I remember that train from just one trip when I was nine months old.  I did find another photo of the carousel from a year later.  But there weren’t all the great family photos like there were for this trip on July 22, 1961.  What treasures.

Almost at Their Best

Vincent Maximilian Patureau and Marie Therese Patureau circa 1888.

I suppose this is a strange title for this really beautiful photo of my great grandparents.  But there is a reason for it.  Eight years ago I posted their wedding photo from 1888.  In the accompanying newspaper article, it talked about the bride and groom looking at their best.  So that post was titled “At Their Best.”  Since those people knew them personally, I’ll take their word for it that they were at their best.

But this photo shows them off pretty good, too.  Wouldn’t you agree with that?  I was so excited to find this photo in a group of photos that my Duffy cousins were showing to a few of us other cousins after a family funeral.  I’m certain that the photos come from my paternal grandmother Germaine Erie Patureau Landry.  The couple in the photo are her parents Vincent Maximilian “Max” Patureau and Marie Therese Landry.  We knew our grandmother as Mee Maw, and she was the mother of my dad Bob Landry.  Daddy’s sister was Wana Landry Duffy and she was the one who had these photos after Mee Maw died in 1973.  They were sitting up in Box 301 in her attic for many years waiting to be discovered.

So we were exploring the contents of Box 301.  When I first saw the photo, I was thinking it was another copy of their wedding photo.  But then I realized that they were not wearing the same thing as from that other photo.  The photo was taken at the same studio with the same background, so I’m thinking it was taken the same day.  I’ve seen more than one copy of the one of them in their wedding attire, but this is the first time I’ve seen this version.  They were married on October 10, 1888, in Brusly, Louisiana, so I’m thinking this was taken a short time previous to that.

Max was 23 years old at the time.  He had been born in Matamoras, Mexico, but grew up in Plaquemine, Louisiana.  When he was growing up, his French immigrant father Ferdinand had a sawmill.  Max was just 11 years old when Ferdinand died as a result of an accident at that sawmill.  He helped his mother Emma Landry Patureau and older brother Leobon out with the sawmill as he got older.  According to one newspaper article, he cut his leg while shaving barrel hoops in 1885.  He set up a business of selling and delivering groceries in 1887.  So he was known as an enterprising young man in 1888.

Therese, meanwhile, turned 20 years old just a month before their wedding.  She had been born in Brusly, Louisiana, which is where she grew up.  Her father was Trasimond Landry.  He had been a Veteran of the Civil War from the south.  He worked as a farmer and was also a clerk of court.  He died when Therese was only 10 years old.  Her mother, Marie Amelie “Belite” Bujol Landry remarried shortly afterward to Magloire Babin.  Therese went to school at St. Joseph’s Academy, which was in downtown Baton Rouge at the time.  She was a devout Catholic and sang in the church choir.

Custom has it that the wedding takes place in the bride’s hometown.  That’s what happened with Max and Therese.  They were married at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church in Brusly.  I’m sure there were lots of family members that showed up for the exchange of nuptials.  Since Max’s mom was Landry, he was related to Therese.  They were second cousins, in fact.  So some family members might have had a hard time deciding what side of the church to sit on! 

Even though both of their father’s died when they were young, both of their mothers were probably in attendance at the wedding.  Emma Landry Patureau would likely be there for her son.  Belite Bujol Landry Babin was surely there to see her daughter as the bride and her younger daughter Kate Landry as a bridesmaid. Besides being with her husband Mack Babin, she probably was sitting with her mother who was still alive at the time. Her mother was yet another Landry family member – Anna Adele Landry Bujol.  Adele was living with Belite and her family during the 1880 Census, so she would have been close to her granddaughter Therese.

I’m so glad we have this other image of the young couple from the time of their marriage.  I’d be tempted to say that they look to be at their best.  And I might be right!

The Landry Family in July 1969

Last night we watched the movie “First Man.”  It is about the events leading up to the first moon landing in the summer of 1969.  Since I was living way back then, I had memories of those long-ago events.  I also have photos to remind me of some of the things that we did back then.  And somehow, I have another reminder of some of those events.

The Landry family – Jamie, Jodie, Al, Rob, Van, mom (Betty Lou Bucklin), and Karen in Houston, Texas, a few days after the first moon landing in July of 1969.

Five years ago I posted a photo from the same event.  That was in honor of the 50th anniversary of the moon landing.  Just recently we passed the 55th anniversary of that time.  I had planned on posting this photo soon after that other one.  Mainly because it is a better photo of all of us, though this one is with our mom.  The other one was with our dad while we were standing in front of the Lunar Landing Module.  (or a replica of one).

This photo has us standing in front of the splashdown capsule from one of the space missions.  It wasn’t from Apollo 11, because that one had just splashed down with Armstrong and crew a day earlier.  Yes, the Landry family was at NASA on July 25, the day after the first visitors to the moon landed back on Earth.  We even saw some commotion with some official-looking cars and such.  We just knew that it was either the astronauts being brought into quarantine or some of the moon rocks being brought in for examination.  What an exciting visit!

I always find it surprising that the first “Star Trek” series was before the first moon landing and it actually ended the month before.  You would think that all of this excitement of traveling in space would have created an audience for the show so that it wouldn’t have been cancelled.  I was definitely a big fan.  Sure, my mom’s first cousin Mel Keys built the model of the U. S. S. Enterprise that they used to film those shows, but I didn’t know that back then.  I just loved the stories about space.  So I was definitely excited to go to NASA that summer.

Notecards written by Karen in July 1969

But that wasn’t all that was happening in July of 1969.  I’ve been planning on writing about a few events from the beginning of that month for a while.  That’s because somehow, I have notecards that Karen wrote on about some of those events.  I’m glad I do, because they give a glimpse into how things were back then.  

The day was July 6, 1969.  We left Jennings and went to Lake Charles to drop Jodie off at band camp.  Karen seemed excited that she got to go in and help Jodie get situated.  Jodie was 15 at the time and Karen was 12.  Band Camp was held at McNeese and it lasted a week during the summer.  After leaving Jodie there, the family went looking to visit family.   

My dad was from Lake Charles, and he had six siblings that still lived there at the time.  The last of all of those eight siblings just recently passed away.  So it looks like we went to his sister Wana’s house first.  It was closest to McNeese.  But, as Karen said, “Nobody was there.”  We headed to the other side of McNeese to see what was going on at Uncle Johnny’s.  Cousin Mona was sick, so we didn’t stay there for more than a bit of a chat.  Then we went to his sister Frances’s house, and everyone was there playing cards.  It’s what they did.  I’m sure we joined in on the games.

We then went to Shakey’s Pizza Parlor for dinner.  We had pizza and balloons.  I’m thinking that we maybe got balloons because Jamie’s birthday was the day before.  It would be another seven years before our family became the entertainment at that Shakey’s location.  I can’t imagine the pizzas costing that much money back then.  Karen didn’t say how much it cost.  But she did talk about the price of dessert.  When we got back to Jennings, we stopped at the Bulldog Inn.  For some reason Al decided to treat everyone to ice cream.  He was rich back then!  Even with seven of us (Jodie was at B. C. in L.C.), the total price would come in under 40 cents.

Those were the days.

Mon Parrain Est Mort: The End of an Era

My godfather has died.  It was pretty much expected, but it is always sad when family members die.  I’m talking about my Uncle Johnny, the last of my dad’s siblings to pass away.  There were eight children in all.  I recently got a new photo of the family from the new Box 301 Collection.  It’s only new in that I had never seen it before.  The photo itself was taken around 1939 in Lake Charles, Louisiana.

The Rob & Erie Patureau Landry family circa 1939 in Lake Charles, Louisiana.

I usually start with the oldest first, but since this is a post about the youngest, I’ll start with him first.  You can see little Johnny standing in the front of this photo.  He’s only about three years old, so I estimate that it was taken around 1939.  John Alfred Xavier Landry was born August 2, 1936, and died July 28, 2024.  He was five days short of his 88th birthday.

The sibling closest in age to him was Frances Mae (1934-2020).  She’s standing in front to the right.  She was about two years younger than Wana Lidwin (1932-2014).  She’s the little girl standing behind Johnny. The next older sibling was Robert Joseph Jr., who is also standing in the front of the older ones.  That’s my dad, and he was known as Bobbie back then.  He lived from 1929 to 2017.  He was seven days short of his 88th birthday.  So he lived just two days less than his younger brother Johnny.

Less than two years older than Bobbie was his sister Germaine (1927-2020).  She is standing next to him in the dress with the white collar.  Her older siblings are the first three shown on the back row on the left.  Hubert was the third child and he lived from 1925 to 2006.   A. J. (Alcide Joseph) was second and he lived from 1924-2018.  He lived the longest at 94 years, 5 months, and 25 days.  Of the girls, Germaine lived the longest at 93 years, 3 months, and 9 days.  The oldest child was Aunt Marie.  Marie Therese lived from 1923 to 1998.  She had the shortest lifespan.  She died a month short of her 75th birthday.  All eight of the siblings were born in Lake Charles, Louisiana, to Rob (1893-1957) and Erie Patureau (1895-1973) Landry.  They can be seen on the right in this photo.

Bobbie and Johnny Landry in 1946 in Lake Charles, LA

This second photo is one I’ve had for a while.  I decided a few years ago that I would use it for when Uncle Johnny died.  It’s such a sweet photo of him with my dad.  My dad and all of his siblings were close to each other.  Most of them lived in Lake Charles, so there were lots of get togethers through the years.  Plus, they would get three or four of them together regularly to play cards till all hours of the night.  There was a lot of laughing involved.  There may have been some discussion of rules, but I wouldn’t really call it arguing.  It was mostly fun and games.

Daddy and Johnny were really close.  He was my dad’s handy man!  Johnny told me that my dad informed my mom quite early in their relationship that he was not a handy man.  He reminded me of that at our last visit with him a few weeks ago.  I’m glad I got a chance to visit with him then.  He also told me that my mom used to hitchhike when she was in college.  I don’t remember hearing that before.  Maybe she was just catching rides with friends and acquaintances. 

They also liked to hunt together.  I’ve written a post about that before.  Another thing he told me at our last visit was that he had never heard my dad curse, even when he brought the wrong ammunition for the gun he brought for hunting.  I think Johnny was not averse to using colorful language, because he remembered that event as a time when Daddy would have been justified in using a few choice words.

And now they’re both gone.  As are their parents and siblings.  It’s the end of an era.  A spectacular era.  

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