Bucklin Family in 1960

Sept. 23, 1960, was the date of my great grandmother Addie May Hine Bucklin’s last birthday. This is a photo of her with her children at the birthday party in Hathaway, Louisiana.

I wasn’t sure what I was going to post today.  When I saw this photo I wasn’t sure if I had used it before.  It seems like I would, because it’s a really nice group photo from my great grandmother’s last birthday.  Her birthday was September 23 and in 1960, that date fell on a Friday.  My guess is that the birthday celebration happened on the day after her birthday.  So the photo was probably taken on Sept. 24, 1960.  That was five weeks before I was born.  In another photo of the event I think that my oldest sister Jodie was there.  That would mean the rest of the family was there as well, including my mom – with me along for the ride.

My great grandmother was Addie May Hine Bucklin.  She was born in 1876 in Noblesville, Indiana.  The Hine family moved down to Louisiana in 1894 and settled in Jefferson Davis Parish around Hathaway.  A few years later Addie met Louis C. Bucklin and they were married in 1898 in Lake Charles.  Soon after that they started a family.  She was pregnant ten times and had a total of a dozen children.  

When those children were growing up, their grandmother – Addie’s mother Susan Stanbrough Hine – had a big celebration every year for her and her friend’s birthday at the beginning of October.  I don’t know if that tradition followed through to Addie and her birthday, but at this birthday there seemed to be a lot of people there.  I think most of them were family.  When you have twelve children, you tend to have a lot of grandchildren as well.  Addie had eighteen grandchildren.  I wish there was a photo of Addie with all of her grandchildren.  Then I’d know for sure if my family had been there.  

I know that my grandfather was there.  He’s the one standing up on the left in the photo.  His name was Fred D. Bucklin and he was born in 1907.  He was married to Myrtle Phenice.  Their second daughter was Betty Lou, who is my mom.  She had four siblings – Sylvia, Alma, Loris, and Austin.  To the right of Grandpa is his oldest brother Leo.  He was born in 1898, which means that Addie had a short pregnancy for him.  Leo was married to Emily Sonnier, but they did not have any children together.  To the right of Leo is Herbert who was born in 1906.  He was married to Dora Koll.  They had two children that lived to adulthood – Louise and Ray.  Next in line is Clarence.  He was the identical twin of my grandfather Fred.  I never met him.  He was married to Sadie Manuel.  They had one daughter together, but Carla was born after the death of Grandma Addie.  Next we have Ralph, who was the second son.  He was born in 1902.  He married Leona Johnson and they had Helen.  Standing up on the right side is Roy, the youngest son.  He was married to Effie Hetzel and they had Jeannette and Doris.

On the front row, sitting on the left is Mary Bucklin Phenice.  She was born in 1900 and was married to Sylvan Phenice.  He was Grandma’s older brother.  That’s right, Grandpa’s oldest sister was married to Grandma’s older brother.  Aunt Mary and Uncle Sylvan did not have any children, so there were no double cousins.  Sitting next to Mary was good old Addie, who was celebrating her 84th birthday.  She looks pretty happy, right?!  She’s not known for smiling in photos.  But by all accounts, she was a very sweet woman.  She loved her family.  To the right of Grandma Addie is Edna Bucklin Keys.  She was married to Frank Keys.  Frank was Grandma’s first cousin.  Edna and Frank had four children – Melvin (of Star Trek fame), Stanley, Arlene, and Vernon.  Sitting on the right is Ruth Bucklin Bruchhaus.  She was married to Budda Bruchhaus and they had two sons – Harley and Laurence.

So the photo is of Addie and nine of her surviving children.  There was a son Carl who had special needs, but I think at the time that the photo was taken he was living in a facility in Metairie.  There had been a son named Paul who died as an infant in 1904.  Robert Bucklin was born in 1911 and was married to Freida Rampmier.  They had a son named Robert Jr., but Robert Sr. died in 1944 at the age of 32.  My mom was 11 at the time and she remembered how traumatic that death was to the family.  In my mom’s own words “Losing a child must be the ultimate challenge for a mother – beyond comprehension – shouldn’t happen.”  She said something similar when she talked about the death of Robert, but those words were written about her own experience losing my oldest sister Jodie.

Of course, all of these people are gone now.  It’s nice to have photos to look back on those people who came before us.  We wouldn’t be here without them.