Surprise! Addie’s Parents Were Cousins!!!
I know. Some of you are saying, “So what? I’ve heard this so many times already.” But this time it’s different. I’m not talking about the Landry side of the family, I’m talking about the Bucklin side of the family. More specifically, I’m talking about the Hine line of my family.
My mom was Betty Lou Bucklin Landry. She was the daughter of Fred D. Bucklin. His mother was Addie Mae Hine Bucklin. She was born in Noblesville, Indiana, but lived her adult life in southern Louisiana. She was alive when I was born, but she died a few weeks later. So I have no personal memories of her. Maybe some of my older siblings or cousins may have some memories of her. I’ve posted several photos of her in the past and have given her a hard time about all the times that she was scowling in the photos. Even in this photo she’s not really smiling.
Maybe it was because she found out that her parents were related! I doubt it, though. She probably wasn’t even aware of the fact, because they were not very closely related. But from what I’ve been able to figure out, they were definitely cousins.
I discovered this connection shortly after I found out the maiden name of George Henry Hine’s mother. Her name was Mary Malina Cox. She was the daughter of Benjamin Cox and Jemima Vestal Cox. That name was very familiar to me. It was not because of any association with pancakes, either.
It had to do with Susan Stanbrough’s ancestry. I had found the Vestal name in her family tree a few years ago. When I started looking at relatives in that family group, I found a few Jemima Vestals. It seemed to have been a common family name at some point, but its usage has declined. Though my sister Jamie’s name is close. All you’d have to do is add a second ‘m’ and rearrange the letters. It wouldn’t really work, though. “Jemima crack corn” just doesn’t have the same ring as “Jamie crack corn.” Sorry, Jamie, I couldn’t resist!
So Susan’s ancestry goes like this: Susan’s mother was Lydia Jane Mills. Susan’s grandfather was James Mills. Her great grandmother was Lydia Jay. Her great great grandmother was Mary Elizabeth Vestal (there it is!). And her great great great grandparents were William Vestal and Elizabeth Mercer. This was a pretty long time ago – they were born in the late 1600s. Elizabeth was born in Great Britain, but William and Mary Elizabeth were born in Pennsylvania.
On Henry’s side I’ve already told you his grandmother’s name. His great grandfather was Jesse Vestal and his great great grandfather was Thomas Curren Vestal. Thomas Current Vestal was the younger brother of Mary Elizabeth Vestal. That would mean that William Vestal and Elizabeth Mercer were also the great great great grandparents of Henry Hine. So he and his wife Susan were fourth cousins through their Vestal connection.
Fourth cousins sounds pretty far when you first hear it, but it’s interesting to see it in association with this same family. Two of Addie’s sons were Ralph and Fred Bucklin. Ralph’s daughter was Helen and Fred’s daughter was Betty Lou, my mom. Helen and mom were first cousins. Helen’s son and my sister Karen are second cousins. Their children are third cousins and their grandchildren are fourth cousins.
So what have we learned? Henry and Sue were fourth cousins. I was alive at the same time as their daughter Addie. At present, there are descendants of Addie who are fourth cousins to each other. All of this together indicates that I’m getting old. Yet it doesn’t make me feel old. It makes me feel like I’m learning perspective.
But you can call me old if you want too.