Betty Lou Visits Arkansas in 1938
I wonder if my mom would have remembered this event if she didn’t have the photos to remind her of it for the rest of her life? It’s amazing what photos do to enhance your memories through the years. I doubt that I’d remember what I looked like as a little kid if I didn’t have the photos to refer back to. A picture tells a story – it’s like a thousand words or something.
You may think this photo looks familiar – or not. Four years ago I posted another photo from the same day. That photo only had my mom and the other little girl and the two dolls. That post was about Girls and Their Dolls. This one is not. I’m not sure what it’s going to be about, but it’s not about girls and their dolls. Or maybe it is. That was the only thing my mom thought about when she talked about the photos from her visit to Fayetteville, Arkansas during the Christmas of 1938.
My mom is the little blonde girl on the left. She is looking off to the side. She never mentioned what she might have been looking at. Like I said, she only talked about the dolls. Her name was Betty Lou Bucklin and she was born May 20, 1933, in Hathaway, Louisiana. She lived most of her life not far from there. Her mother’s name was Myrtle Sylvia Phenice Bucklin. Myrtle’s older sister Grace was married to a man named Ray Sowder. Grace and Ray must have decided to take little Betty Lou with them to visit Ray’s family during the Christmastime of 1938, because the rest of the kids in the photo are Sowder relatives.
The two boys in the photo are the sons of Ray’s sister Alice and her husband Raymond Keith. The little boy next to my mom is 2 1/2-year-old Donnie Keith. He seems to be distracted by the same thing as my mom. The other little boy is 4-year-old Paul Keith. The other little girl is Kara Lee Sowder. She was the daughter of Ray’s brother Hugh and his wife Bonnie. But more importantly, she was “The Girl With the Two Dolls.”
And they weren’t just any old dolls. They were store-bought dolls. That was significant, because little Betty Lou didn’t have a store-bought doll. So it was a really big deal to her that she got to play with a real doll and have her photo taken with it. She cherished those photos for the rest of her life.
Come to think of it, she probably would have remembered that doll even if she didn’t have the photos to show it. But since she did have those photos, now everyone reading this post can share that joyous experience she had in Arkansas back in 1938.